The Best Qualities in a Person Anything
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The Best Qualities in a Person

List Criteria: Vote on the qualities you look for in friends and lovers

List of the most desirable personality traits in women and men. Wondering how to be successful, how to be charming and how to become popular? This crowdsourced list contains the best characteristics that people can have, as agreed upon by a community of voters who have ranked the list. These traits are what women really want and what men like; they are what people strive to be and what others look for in a mate.

The best qualities in a person will vary, based on the person assessing or being assessed, but there's no denying there are certain qualities to look for in a person that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the best traits in a person include being trustworthy, loyal, and fun, but else constitutes the best quality traits in a person?

When it comes to looking for the greatest qualities in a friend or the best qualities in a mate, there are questions to be answered when determining what your compatibility with another person will be like "does my mate value the same qualities I do" or "do my friend and I share the same qualities".

What are the top qualities in a person? What are the best personality traits? What are the most important qualities in a person? Whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have", this is a great place to see what qualities other people value.
List is ranked by a combination of each item's votes & positioning in reranks
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  1. 1
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    most listed
    Trustworthy

    100
  2. 2
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    Down 40

    Loyal

    95
  3. 3
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    Down 58

    the people's #1
    Intelligent

    93
  4. 4
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    Loving

    91
  5. 5
    Up 533
    Down 65

    Funny

    89
  6. 6
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    Down 68

    Moral

    85
  7. 7
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    Down 36

    Good Listener

    82
  8. 8
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    Down 49
    77
    added by: analise.dubner
  9. 9
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    Down 69

    Optimistic

    76
  10. 10
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    Down 104

    Attractive

    76
  11. 11
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    Well Read

    75
  12. 12
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    Down to Earth

    73
  13. 13
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    Down 56

    Calm

    71
  14. 14
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    ranked low on reranks
    Fun

    70
  15. 15
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    Down 44

    Confident

    69
    added by: Keaton
  16. 16
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    Creative

    67
  17. 17
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    Resourceful

    66
  18. 18
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    Nurturing

    63
  19. 19
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    Wise

    62
  20. 20
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    Doesn't Smoke

    61
  21. 21
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    Likes Animals

    60
  22. 22
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    Down 55

    Peaceful

    59
  23. 23
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    Well Spoken

    59
  24. 24
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    Hard Working

    58
  25. 25
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    often listed &ranked high on reranks
    Well Traveled

    58
  26. 26
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    Down 17

    Supportive

    57
    added by: laide
  27. 27
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    Down 78

    Critical Thinker

    56
  28. 28
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    Sober

    56
  29. 29
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    Down 24

    ranked low on reranks
    Has Self Respect

    55
    added by: Keaton
  30. 30
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    often listed &ranked high on reranks
    Not Religious!

    55
    added by: Fisheswithfeet
  31. 31
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    Fiscally Responsible

    54
  32. 32
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    Down 93

    Artistic

    52
  33. 33
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    Adventurous

    52
  34. 34
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    Down 95

    Sensitive

    52
  35. 35
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    Down 34

    Mature

    51
    added by: Keaton
  36. 36
    Up 228
    Down 100

    Family Oriented

    51
  37. 37
    Up 219
    Down 83

    Employed

    49
  38. 38
    Up 188
    Down 103

    Musical

    49
  39. 39
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    Down 228

    often listed &ranked high on reranks
    Rich

    47
  40. 40
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    Down 75

    Awesome

    46
  41. 41
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    Down 80

    Well Written

    45
  42. 42
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    Down 111

    Doesn't Care About Money

    45
  43. 43
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    Introverted

    44
  44. 44
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    Down 134

    Athletic

    43
  45. 45
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    Knows What a Philips Screwdriver Is

    43
    added by: BostonBruins
  46. 46
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    Down 114

    Quiet

    43
  47. 47
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    Down 88

    Tech Savvy

    41
  48. 48
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    Down 52

    ranked low on reranks
    Disciplined

    41
    added by: Srinidhi S U
  49. 49
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    Well Traveled

    40
  50. 50
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    Down 126

    Sexually Uninhibited

    40
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