reddit Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
+ - 4,407 1,586
Constant negativity

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2
+ - 5,121 1,860
Checking their phone constantly

3
+ - 4,671 1,693
Being arrogant or stuck up

4
+ - 4,345 1,579
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

5
+ - 4,432 1,623
Being rude to the waitstaff

6
+ - 4,538 1,665
Having no sense of humor

7
+ - 3,652 1,398
Not talking

8
+ - 3,607 1,563
Talking about her exes

9
+ - 3,183 1,421
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

10
+ - 3,080 1,380
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

11
+ - 939 389
She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

12
+ - 3,158 1,544
Thick, caked-on makeup

13
+ - 2,955 1,451
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

14
+ - 945 425
Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

15
+ - 2,659 1,349
Chewing with her mouth open

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16
+ - 1,097 575
Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
+ - 2,294 1,307
Lying about anything in her profile

18
+ - 752 422
Fishes for Compliments

19
+ - 2,310 1,436
Not eating on a dinner date

20
+ - 1,044 661
Appearing Sloppy

21
+ - 2,230 1,474
Getting way too drunk

22
+ - 2,070 1,395
Talking constantly about herself

23
+ - 2,046 1,420
Making fun of other people

24
+ - 2,094 1,914
Smoking

25
+ - 1,460 1,855
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
+ - 1,304 1,812
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
+ - 1,328 2,250
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half