reddit Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
4,775 1,716
Being arrogant or stuck up

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2
4,508 1,616
Constant negativity

3
5,241 1,894
Checking their phone constantly

4
4,453 1,610
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

5
4,540 1,648
Being rude to the waitstaff

6
4,631 1,686
Having no sense of humor

7
3,739 1,425
Not talking

8
3,703 1,592
Talking about her exes

9
3,260 1,433
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

10
3,150 1,400
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

11
1,008 398
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

12
1,001 437
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

13
3,237 1,573
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,016 1,470
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

15
2,726 1,368
Chewing with her mouth open

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16
1,141 585
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
2,344 1,323
Lying about anything in her profile

18
792 438
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

19
2,357 1,449
Not eating on a dinner date

20
1,081 680
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

21
2,278 1,491
Getting way too drunk

22
2,116 1,402
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,093 1,429
Making fun of other people

24
2,142 1,946
Smoking

25
1,498 1,881
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,336 1,842
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,352 2,299
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half