Ricky Martin comes out and reveals he is gay. Here are Ricky Martin's past and present relationships. Flames, hookups, boyfriends, and girlfriends of Ricky Martin. With all the famous people Martin's shared a bed with, it's hard to believe none of them are on the celebrity sex tapes. Ricky Martin is gay now, so maybe he'll end up with a crazy scandalous celeb sex tape if one exists. There's not much in the way of gay celeb sex tapes, so it would be big. Check back for future info on Ricky Martin's gay relationships.