culture The Non Sex Things That Mean You Are Good at Sex  

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List Rules Vote up the things that have nothing at all to do with sex, but signal to potential partners that you have some seriously sexy skills.

Is there really any way to tell if someone is good at sex without sleeping with them first? Regardless how you feel, whether or not you are compatible with someone in bed can be a major deal breaker for any relationship. But how to really know if someone is good at sex seems relatively impossible. Some believe that having big hands and other physical attributes are an indicator that men may be hiding a pretty big package. But size isn't everything. Most of the time skill is more important.

Rather than equating looks with sexual skill, maybe people should be thinking about what makes someone good in bed. Many different skills have been associated with someone's sexual prowess. Having a way with musical instruments, athleticism, or cooking skills are just a few things people believe indicate a partner may be good in bed. Others believe more personality-based attributes are important when you're sleeping with someone. Being kind, funny, smart or empathetic can go a long way when you're getting intimate between the sheets. So, what is the truth when it comes to these non-sex things? Listed below is a roundup of popular myths and beliefs that people think indicates someone is good at sex - all thanks to the commenters on AskReddit. The only way to know is from experience. So, what are the truest non-sex things that mean you are good at sex?

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+ - 9,580 453
You have a good sense of humor/are able to laugh at yourself

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+ - 9,069 528
You have good hygiene

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+ - 8,568 856
You're intelligent

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+ - 8,477 877
You have empathy for others

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+ - 7,868 1,374
You can pet a dog properly

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+ - 7,662 1,532
You give good massages

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+ - 6,913 2,109
You are confident

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+ - 6,261 2,179
You savor your food

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+ - 6,338 2,220
You're good at cooking

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+ - 5,970 2,336
How you eat a popsicle/banana

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+ - 5,586 2,180
You have good fingernail grooming

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+ - 5,959 2,341
You know how to pet a cat properly

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+ - 4,641 2,847
You're a relaxed driver

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+ - 4,619 2,915
You can shuffle a deck of cards well

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+ - 4,192 3,132
You are a fast typer

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+ - 4,021 3,263
You can hula hoop

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+ - 4,078 3,314
You are a good dancer

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+ - 4,102 3,335
You can drive stick shift

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+ - 3,925 3,307
You know how to ride a horse

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+ - 3,847 3,324
You are athletic

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+ - 3,718 3,368
You can tie a tie

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+ - 3,579 3,530
You're a good swimmer (especially at butterfly stroke)

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+ - 3,256 3,719
You can open a Starburst wrapper with your tongue

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+ - 3,043 3,828
You're good with cars

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+ - 2,806 4,078
You have a deep voice

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+ - 2,668 4,128
You can tie a cherry stem in a knot with your tongue

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+ - 2,352 4,143
How you eat an oyster

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+ - 2,186 4,369
You are good a yoga

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+ - 1,866 4,527
You can play the bass/guitar/piano/drums

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+ - 1,004 5,257
You can play the flute