culture The Non Sex Things That Mean You Are Good at Sex  

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List Rules Vote up the things that have nothing at all to do with sex, but signal to potential partners that you have some seriously sexy skills.

Is there really any way to tell if someone is good at sex without sleeping with them first? Regardless how you feel, whether or not you are compatible with someone in bed can be a major deal breaker for any relationship. But how to really know if someone is good at sex seems relatively impossible. Some believe that having big hands and other physical attributes are an indicator that men may be hiding a pretty big package. But size isn't everything. Most of the time skill is more important.

Rather than equating looks with sexual skill, maybe people should be thinking about what makes someone good in bed. Many different skills have been associated with someone's sexual prowess. Having a way with musical instruments, athleticism, or cooking skills are just a few things people believe indicate a partner may be good in bed. Others believe more personality-based attributes are important when you're sleeping with someone. Being kind, funny, smart or empathetic can go a long way when you're getting intimate between the sheets. So, what is the truth when it comes to these non-sex things? Listed below is a roundup of popular myths and beliefs that people think indicates someone is good at sex - all thanks to the commenters on AskReddit. The only way to know is from experience. So, what are the truest non-sex things that mean you are good at sex?
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1
+ - 10,992 524
You have a good sense of humor/are able to laugh at yourself

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2
+ - 10,378 621
You have good hygiene

3
+ - 9,820 991
You're intelligent

4
+ - 9,709 1,028
You have empathy for others

5
+ - 9,037 1,562
You can pet a dog properly

6
+ - 8,794 1,763
You give good massages

7
+ - 7,881 2,479
You are confident

8
+ - 7,182 2,535
You savor your food

9
+ - 7,284 2,576
You're good at cooking

10
+ - 6,850 2,674
How you eat a popsicle/banana

11
+ - 6,823 2,668
You know how to pet a cat properly

12
+ - 6,427 2,518
You have good fingernail grooming

13
+ - 5,322 3,288
You're a relaxed driver

14
+ - 5,299 3,343
You can shuffle a deck of cards well

15
+ - 4,832 3,595
You are a fast typer

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16
+ - 4,689 3,852
You can drive stick shift

17
+ - 4,594 3,776
You can hula hoop

18
+ - 4,630 3,872
You are a good dancer

19
+ - 4,478 3,801
You are athletic

20
+ - 4,488 3,825
You know how to ride a horse

21
+ - 4,293 3,866
You can tie a tie

22
+ - 4,137 4,028
You're a good swimmer (especially at butterfly stroke)

23
+ - 3,753 4,299
You can open a Starburst wrapper with your tongue

24
+ - 3,503 4,423
You're good with cars

25
+ - 3,227 4,715
You have a deep voice

26
+ - 3,094 4,759
You can tie a cherry stem in a knot with your tongue

27
+ - 2,709 4,776
How you eat an oyster

28
+ - 2,537 5,039
You are good a yoga

29
+ - 2,149 5,235
You can play the bass/guitar/piano/drums

30
+ - 1,141 6,104
You can play the flute