culture The Things You Wish You Were Better At  

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List Rules These should be things that humans can actually do, not superpowers.

We all have those people in our lives who seem like they're good at just about everything. They make friends easily, have successful careers, and excelling in all physical activity comes just as easily as baking an eclair for the first time. But the truth is, everyone has opportunity for self-improvement, and understanding where you need to improve is the first and most critical step of getting better at anything. If you're looking for things to improve about yourself and deciding to be better, this list outlines some of the most common challenges among your peers.

If you're looking for ways to improve yourself, you can start by looking at the relationships in your life. Do you have positive relationships with your family and your coworkers? Do you have long-lasting friendships or are you consistently having "falling outs" with people you're close with? Relationships are great indicators of where you stand emotionally and mentally - maybe you need to learn how to cope with your stress in a healthier manner or maybe you need to learn how to communicate better? 

Reflecting on your psychological well-being is a healthy and crucial way to gain perspective and create goals in your life. But not all areas of self-improvement have to involve deep-rooted emotional issues. Are you neglecting your hobbies to watch TV? Have you been avoiding the gym because you're tired after work? Many of the areas that could use improvement in our lives are based simply on desires and goals we've yet to accomplish. 

What are things you wish you were better at? If you don't see them listed here, join the conversation and add the things you strive towards getting better at. Vote up the things you wish you were better at and feel free to rerank this list based on your own personal experiences!
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Refraining from Unhealthy Habi... is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Refraining from Unhealthy Habits

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237 46
Coping with Stress is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Coping with Stress

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242 49
Coping with Anxiety is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Coping with Anxiety

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224 44
Not Procrastinating is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Not Procrastinating

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220 50
Budgeting is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Budgeting

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221 56
Not Overanalyzing Little Thing... is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Not Overanalyzing Little Things

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209 51
Maintaining a Workout Regimen is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Maintaining a Workout Regimen

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195 47
Maintaining Healthy Relationsh... is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Maintaining Healthy Relationships

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182 50
Being Comfortable in Your Own ... is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Being Comfortable in Your Own Skin

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175 62
Communicating Your Feelings is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Communicating Your Feelings

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166 62
Standing Up for Yourself is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Standing Up for Yourself

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180 72
Making Decisions is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Making Decisions

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159 63
Socializing is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Socializing

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143 65
Dancing is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Dancing

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160 81
Time Management is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Time Management

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146 71
Cooking is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Cooking

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135 65
Remembering Details is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Remembering Details

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142 71
Public speaking is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Public speaking

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69 24
Learning from Mistakes is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
RobLein added Learning from Mistakes

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69 25
Being Patient is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
RobLein added Being Patient

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127 71
Concentrating is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Concentrating

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120 66
Understanding Social Cues is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Understanding Social Cues

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126 77
Knowing When to Say No is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Knowing When to Say No

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116 70
Receiving Compliments is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Receiving Compliments

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111 66
Fixing Home Appliances is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Fixing Home Appliances

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102 62
Writing is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Writing

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62 31
Making Friends is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Alaina Hillman added Making Friends

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57 37
Swimming is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
RobLein added Swimming

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92 70
Allotting Time for Hobbies is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Allotting Time for Hobbies

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96 74
Singing in a Wide Vocal Range is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Singing in a Wide Vocal Range

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Sports is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Sports

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Carpentry is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
RobLein added Carpentry

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79 76
Being Compassionate is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Being Compassionate

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78 76
Talking to People IRL is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Talking to People IRL

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72 82
Driving in Big Cities is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
Driving in Big Cities

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31 39
Making Love is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Things You Wish You Were Better At
RobLein added Making Love