- 1The biggest surprise of Sean Hayes' coming out in 2010 is that he didn't come out anytime before 2010. The flamboyant character Hayes played on the hit-show Will and Grace seemed to always go hand-in-hand with his real persona, at least in the minds of the media. So when Hayes finally came out to Advocate magazine in a cover story, the headline read "The interview you've waited 12 years to read."
Hayes is quick to point out though in the March interview that he never had a problem saying who he was, but faced with the jeopardy of not landing straight roles, he avoided questions about his sexuality and started saying things like: "When I play a gay character I want to be as believable as possible. And when I'm playing a straight character I also want to be as believable as possible. So the less that people know about my personal life, the more believable I can be as a character."
Currently, Hayes has a boyfriend even now with everything out in the open, chooses not to flash his relationship around. "That's it. That's all I need," he says. "I don't need events. I don't do a lot. I live my life like an 85-year-old man. I'm just quiet. It's fantastic."
- 2Ricky Martin's announcement on March 29 that he was gay was not really a huge shocker for anybody familiar with him and his booty-shakin' persona. The Puerto Rican pop star's sexual orientation was long under speculation due to his large gay following after the success of Livin' la Vida Loca.
When asked in a December 2000 interview with The Mirror whether or not he was gay, Martin replied saying, "I don't think I should have to tell anyone if I am gay or not, or who I've slept with or not." However, with more and more people needing the actual support of their own fellow LGBT community, Martin retracted his previous sentiment and officially came out on his web site, stating, "I am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man. I am very blessed to be who I am." He said that "these years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within, and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn't even know existed."
Martin expressed his support of gay marriage on Larry King Live and shared that "everything about saying [that I am gay] feels right." Martin, who currently has an unidentified boyfriend, is also the father of twin boys, Matteo and Valentino, via surrogate.
- 3Chely Wright's coming out did not only create a new milestone in her personal life but also a new milestone for country music. The country singer is one of the first country singers in music history to ever come out of the closet. In the May issue of People magazine, Wright, most famous for her 1999 hit "Single White Female", admitted her fears by saying: "There had never, ever been a country music artist who had acknowledged his or her homosexuality. I wasn't going to be the first."
However, Wright faced her fears and did the most courageous act in her career by telling the truth. A truth she says she's known for so many years and one she's finally able to share with fans.
Wright also released a book titled "Like Me: Confessions of a Heartland Country Singer" in 2010 where she goes in further detail about her tough and not-til-recently silent journey. Her latest album titled "Lifted off the Ground" was also released in May of 2010. Her album title could not be any more accurate because Wright says that her coming out "really [does make her] feel lifted off the ground" and that she would "bottle [the feeling of freedom] up and FedEx it anyone on the planet."
- 4Jennifer Knapp walked away from her Christian music career seven years ago, leaving much of her fans and critics clueless as to why. Well, in 2010, the Grammy-nominated artist resurrected and stepped back into the music scene with a new album titled "Letting Go" and with it a new voice for her own sexuality. Knapp felt that it was her "obligation" to reveal that she has been in a same-sex relationship for the past eight years to the Christian music scene because "it was really clear that they wouldn't participate in buying a record because it was against their beliefs" and she didn't want to "have someone go out and buy a record and feel like they had been hoodwinked."
Now, Knapp is no longer on a Christian-based record label, and her new album consists of folksy rock songs that she describes as being about "inner-conflicts, spirituality and life lessons."
- 5U.K. rapper Lady Sovereign is outspoken about a lot of things but one thing that she's remained mum about until recently was her homosexuality. Blame it on her publicists who, according to an interview she gave with lesbian magazine Diva, advised her to keep quiet about her orientation to avoid damaging her career. Now, Lady Sovereign isn't listening to anybody but herself. She told Diva in May that "I don't really give a s--- ... You can't hide away forever. It's just stupid and now I've come out I feel a lot more comfortable with myself. But it was a bit scary back then, because some people do have horrible opinions." Given the culture of hip hop and the underlying homophobia in some of the music, Lady Sovereign's admission is even more honorable than it already is.
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