Advice Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .  

Elise Hennigan
9.4k votes 723 voters 92.1k views 48 items

List Rules Any feeling that can finish the sentence, "Being in a relationship makes me feel ___"

It's no secret that being in a relationship is tough. You have to sacrifice, give up your freedom, your attention, and precious time spent with your friends. In return, you get the benefits of being in a relationship: acceptance, love, better health, and satisfaction. Or... do you? Is being in a relationship the best-thing-ever or a major pain in your butt? Odds are that you don't always feel completely one way or the other. Hopefully the good outweighs the bad or else you wouldn't still be in that relationship, right? 
 
Here's your chance to vote and compare yourself to others. How does being in a relationship make you feel? We can all be uncertain at times, but if you have to ask yourself again and again if you're in a good relationship, the answer may be "no."

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Accepted is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Accepted You feel like he'd still love you even if you have chocolate ice cream on your face

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356 83
Secure is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Secure No one is playing any games here

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355 85
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Attractive It does help to hear it from them

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Happy With Life is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
quality5127 added Happy With Life

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Appreciated is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Appreciated For once! Someone sees all the good deeds you do around here

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Understood is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Understood She knows that you love Nickleback and doesn't judge you one bit

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Feeling Happy is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
KenpachiZaraki added Feeling Happy

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Satisfied is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Satisfied That intangible feeling of "wanting something" is gone

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Relatable is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Relatable You're in a relationship now so you can relate with others who are in the same boat

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212 93
Selfless is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Selfless All of a sudden you're happy to give and give without the promise of getting anything back

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197 100
Good in Bed is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Good in Bed Having one consistent partner has allowed you to hone your love-makin' skillz

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Vulnerable is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Vulnerable After you tell them your secrets, will they leave you?

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Like You Can Do Anything is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Like You Can Do Anything You've got your man/ woman behind you and you're ready to take on the world!

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Accomplished is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Accomplished You can tick that off your list

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Anchored and Balanced is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
qwer added Anchored and Balanced

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Healthy is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Healthy Coincidentally, you've started exercising and eating better since you started dating

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Carefree is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Carefree Who needs to put on makeup (or pants) when you have someone who loves you unconditionally?

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Warm and Fuzzy is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
RavenBandy added Warm and Fuzzy

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Grown Up is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
prissymay added Grown Up

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Distracted is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Distracted Sorry career, you're going to be put on hold for awhile. 

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Broke is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Broke You're right! We should totally try that hot new sushi restaurant... (eek)

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Hopeful is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Hopeful

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Self-Conscious is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Self-Conscious It's hard to hide insecurities when you spend 24/7 with someone

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Confused is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Confused Are all girls this crazy or is it just yours?

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Cuddly is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Cuddly

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Horny is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Horny

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Anxious is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Kloe Saigwan Syroy added Anxious

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Jealous is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Jealous You're not gonna to let any other lady talk to yo' man!

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Inspired is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Inspired

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Weary....Sometimes is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Weary....Sometimes

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Scared is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Scared

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Codependent is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Codependent

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Fan-Freakin-Tastic is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Fan-Freakin-Tastic

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Lonely Until We're Together Ag... is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Lonely Until We're Together Again

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hurt is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Steve Campbell added hurt

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Inadequate is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Siersha 2 added Inadequate

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Suspicious is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Suspicious Is it just you or did your guy/gal lock eyes with the grocery checker for a little too long? Time to read their texts.

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Misunderstood is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Misunderstood Somehow your words always seem to get twisted

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Impatient to Know If This Is
Siersha 2 added Impatient to Know If This Is "THE ONE"

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Trapped is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Trapped You kind of, sort of hate your bf/gf... but you could never leave him/her

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Over Whelmed is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
YouKittenMe added Over Whelmed

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All Grown up and No Place to G... is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
prissymay added All Grown up and No Place to Go?

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Stress-Free is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Stress-Free Having someone to share your worries with makes them seem manageable

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Burdened is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
Burdened Sometimes your significant other feels more like a little brother/sister than a lover

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Feeling Sad is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
KenpachiZaraki added Feeling Sad

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Spending More Time Alone Now T... is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
CharlotteChadwick added Spending More Time Alone Now Than When I Was Single

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Claustrophobic is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
PickermanTrauth added Claustrophobic

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Running Scared is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list Being in a Relationship Makes You Feel . . .
PaulaJeanMichaud added Running Scared