Famous Women Ben Affleck Has Dated

Who is Ben Affleck dating? Many famous women have dated Ben Affleck, and this list will give you more details about these lucky ladies. This list includes Ben Affleck’s current girlfriend, past relationships, and dating rumors. So this comprehensive dating history tells you everything you need to know about Ben Affleck’s love life. 

This list features Ben Affleck's ex-girlfriends and ex-wives, along with additional information about them, such as when they were born and what they do professionally. These women come in all shapes and sizes, but what they all have in common is that they're all women that Ben Affleck has either dated or been linked with. Ben Affleck was previously engaged to Jennifer Lopez, though they broke things off in January 2004. Then his wife was Jennifer Garner from 2005 to 2018. 

This list of Ben Affleck’s girlfriends and exes includes Ana de Armas and Gwyneth Paltrow.

He is currently married to Jennifer Lopez, to whom he had previously been engaged in the early 2000s.

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  • Jennifer Lopez
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    After meeting on the set of Gigli, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez started dating in 2002. They were engaged later that year, but they called off their 2003 wedding shortly before it was scheduled to take place.

    In May 2021, the pair appeared to have rekindled their romance, 17 years later, after Lopez's split from fiance Alex Rodriguez. They were seen first on a getaway to Montana, and then apparently getting flirty while working out at Anatomy Fitness in Miami. A source told Entertainment Tonight that they were "not trying to hide their relationship by any means," and added, “They stayed close to each other while working out and were hugging, being playful together. It was clear to everyone that they have intense chemistry and were having fun together.”

    In her April 8, 2022, JLo newsletter, the Marry Me star confirmed that she and Affleck were once again engaged. In a tearful video message sent to fans, she showed off her ring, saying, "You're perfect." 

    The former early 2000s power couple finally went through with their nuptials on July 16, 2022, in Las Vegas, Nevada, the Marry Me star confirmed the following day via her On the JLo newsletter

    "We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient. Exactly what we wanted. Last night we flew to Vegas, stood in line for a license with four other couples, all making the same journey to the wedding capital of the world," JLo wrote in her newsletter. Bennifer tied the knot in a “small” ceremony, with a source telling People, “It was super, super small. They just wanted to be married, so they got married.” 

    Jennifer Lynn Lopez (born July 24, 1969), nicknamed "J-Lo", is an American actress, singer, dancer, fashion designer, producer and businesswoman. In 1991, Lopez began appearing as a Fly Girl dancer on In Living Color, where she remained a regular until she decided to pursue an acting career in 1993. For her first leading role in the 1997 Selena biopic of the same name, Lopez received a Golden Globe nomination and became the first Latin actress to earn over US$1 million for a film. She went on to star in Anaconda (1997) and Out of Sight (1998), later establishing herself as the highest-paid Latin actress in Hollywood.Lopez ventured into the music industry with her debut studio album On the 6 ...more
    • Born: 07-24-1969
    • Birthplace: Castle Hill, New York City, New York, United States of America
  • Ben Affleck and Ana de Armas were first linked in early 2020 after meeting while filming Deep Water. The pair were often spotted together in Los Angeles during quarantine, and took multiple romantic vacations together, including to Cuba and Costa Rica. 

    However, they reportedly wanted different things, leading to their split in January 2021. 

    "Ben is no longer dating Ana. She broke it off. Their relationship was complicated. Ana doesn't want to be Los Angeles based and Ben obviously has to since his kids live in Los Angeles," a source told People. Another source added, "This is something that was mutual and something that is completely amicable. They are in different points in their lives; there is deep love and respect there. Ben continues to want to work on himself. He has three jobs lined up and he's a solid father at home. They are both happy with where they are in their lives."

    Ana Celia de Armas Caso (born 30 April 1988) is a Cuban-Spanish actress. She made her acting debut in 2006 in the Spanish film Una rosa de Francia. She also starred in the Spanish television show El Internado. In 2015 she starred in her first American film Knock Knock followed by Exposed, Hands of Stone, and War Dogs. In 2017 de Armas had her breakout role as Joi, an AI hologram, in the critically acclaimed science fiction film Blade Runner 2049.
    • Born: 04-30-1988
    • Birthplace: Cuba, Santa Cruz del Norte
  • Katie Cherry

    Ben Affleck reportedly met musician Katie Cherry on celebrity dating app Raya. They were spotted together at the West Hollywood Halloween party on October 26, 2019. 

  • Jennifer Garner
    Photo: US Department of Education / Wikimedia Commons

    Ben Affleck started dating his Daredevil co-star Jennifer Garner in 2004. The couple got married in 2005 and they now have three kids. They divorced in June 2015. 

    • Born: 04-17-1972
    • Birthplace: Houston, Texas, USA
  • Enza Sambataro
    Photo: Gage Skidmore / Wikimedia Commons

    Ben Affleck was rumored to have dated Enza Sambataro in 2004.

    Enza Sambataro was the spouse of Kevin Youkilis.
    • Birthplace: Newton, Alabama
  • Gwyneth Paltrow
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    Ben Affleck and Gwyneth Paltrow were a couple from 1997 - 2000.
    Gwyneth Kate Paltrow () (born September 27, 1972) is an American actress, singer, author, and businesswoman. She has won an Academy Award, a Golden Globe Award, a Primetime Emmy Award and two Screen Actors Guild Awards. Her films have grossed US$3.2 billion at the U.S. box office and US$8.2 billion worldwide.Paltrow gained very early notice for her work in films such as Seven (1995), Emma (1996), Sliding Doors (1998), and A Perfect Murder (1998). She garnered wider critical acclaim for her performance as Viola De Lesseps in the historical romance film Shakespeare in Love (1998) which won her several awards, including the Academy Award for Best Actress. This was followed by roles in The ...more
    • Born: 09-27-1972
    • Birthplace: Los Angeles, USA, California