Ben Wyatt Is A Better Husband Than Jim Halpert And We Can Prove It

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It's easy to say that The Office and Parks and Recreation were two of the best comedies of the 2000s. Both shows had terrific ensembles, sharp-witted comedy that revitalized the work-place comedy, and some dreamy leading men. Picking why you prefer one show probably comes down to personal preference – as well as your tolerance for subpar seasons. Plenty of fans swear Parks and Recreation is better than The Office, while others will live and die for Dunder Mifflin.

But which show has the better love interest? That's where things get more complicated. After all, pitting Parks and Rec's Ben Wyatt against Jim Halpert of The Office is kind of like comparing LeBron to Jordan. But upon closer inspection, you'll start to see how much of a catch man-of-many-jobs Ben Wyatt really was. And maybe, just maybe, Jim wasn't so perfect after all.

Does that mean Jim Halpert is a bad husband? Not necessarily. Does Leslie Knope have a better husband than Pam Beesly? Most definitely, though you're welcome to debate Ben Wyatt vs. Jim Halpert forever.

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  • 1
    3,030 VOTES

    Leslie's Happiness Is Ben's #1 Job

    When their relationship threatens Leslie's job, Ben quits so she can continue. When a new position would take him from Pawnee, Ben turns it down so they can stay together. A successful romantic partnership requires making someone else's happiness a priority, and Ben does just that.

    Jim definitely wants to make Pam happy, but he does take that job in Philadelphia. Considering all the problems it causes in their marriage, it wasn't the most selfless decision.

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  • 2
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    Ben Doesn't Bring Baggage To His Relationship

    You would think being impeached after two months as a teenage mayor might lead to a life of bitterness and misery. But that's not how Ben operates. He's a man who still has remarkable optimism for his wife's political career, despite his own crash and burn as a mini-mayor.

    Jim, on the other hand, always seems to feel that he's wasting his life, no matter how good things are going for him. That restlessness eventually takes him to Philadelphia, away from Pam and his daughter. It would be one thing if Pam was cool with the situation, but she clearly isn't.

    2,453 votes
  • 3
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    Ben Doesn't Lose His Cool With Leslie

    Even the best relationships have rocky moments. Work, parenthood, and just day-to-day life take a toll. When Jim loses his cool with Pam in Season 9 of The Office, you can feel the pressure he's facing balancing his out-of-town job and his family. His outburst is understandable, but still awful.

    But stressed or not, Ben would never talk this way to Leslie. He responds to tough situations in a very specific way: by dressing up as Batman.

    2,495 votes
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    Ben Is Willing To Break Up With Leslie To Help Her Career

    Season 4 of Parks and Rec puts fans through the ringer. Leslie and Ben are together, but they can't stay that way if Leslie wants to run for office. So, they break up, and Ben gives Leslie a truly heartbreaking parting gift: a "Knope 2012" button.

    Taking Sting's "If You Love Somebody, Set Them Free" to heart, Ben pushes Leslie to follow her dream, even if that means (temporarily) saying goodbye to him. Compare that with Jim, who spends years quietly sabotaging Pam's existing relationship, only to become bored once they're actually together.

    2,384 votes
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    Ben Doesn't Play Games

    Taking a cue from Cheers, Moonlighting, and pretty much every romantic comedy ever, Ben and Leslie don't get along at first. In fact, they can't stand each other for a while. Once they get together, though, Ben is all in.  

    Jim and Pam are another story. Pam does let Jim down when he confesses his love at the end of Season 2. But when Pam breaks up with Roy, Jim is all about Karen... even when he can clearly see that Pam is trying to mend their relationship.

    Basically, Ben is sincere in his affections. He never plays mind games with Leslie.

    2,171 votes
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    Even When He's Proposing, Ben Gives Leslie Her Say

    Even When He's Proposing, Ben Gives Leslie Her Say
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    Yes, Jim's proposal to Pam at a rainy New Jersey gas station was lovely and quite visually arresting. But Ben's proposal has him beat, especially when he lets Leslie take over.

    1,878 votes