culture The Best Qualities in a Friend  

Lauren Slocum
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“A good friend is hard to find,” said millions of people, in millions of different ways. And it’s true! Making friends is hard. There’s a big difference between your best friends and all the random people in your Facebook and Instagram feeds. You may see someone everyday and enjoy their company, but if they’re lacking some of the characteristics of a good friend that are most important to you, it's hard to move past that surface friendship stage (the stage where you'd rather finish War and Peace than spend time with them). So what are the qualities of a best friend you look for when you meet new people?
 

A real friend is someone with whom you should be able to share your thoughts, your jokes, your opinions, and your feelings, without feeling threatened. Whether you’ve known this person your whole life, or just a couple of years, you trust them, you share similar values, and to top it all off, you have tons of fun together. It’s usually pretty easy to spot the special connection that happens between two people who really get each other. Together, you hash out the complexities of life, you get into trouble, and you'll defend your friend even if you don't technically agree with them.
 

Your best friends should be encouraging, but they should also be able to tell you when you’re acting like an idiot. Your best friends shouldn’t hold you back, they should help you move forward while giving you their honest opinions. You should be able to laugh with them, cry with them, and they should be the type of people you can call from the bathroom on a bad date, or when you’re broken down on the side of the freeway waiting for AAA.


So what should you look for when you make new friends? How does one meet friends worthy of seeing you in your underwear or watching Mighty Ducks marathons together on Netflix? We’ve compiled a list of our top qualities in a best friend and we want your opinion. Rank the qualities you find most important, and add any qualities you think we’ve missed!
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Honest is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Honest

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713 36
Loyal is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Loyal

3
798 46
Sense of Humor is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Sense of Humor

4
687 39
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend

5
678 41
Accepting is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Accepting

6
710 46
Good Listener is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Good Listener

7
672 43
Kind is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Kind

8
632 40
Fun Loving is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Fun Loving

9
661 48
Good Character is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Good Character

10
591 41
Dependable is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Dependable

11
605 44
Encouraging is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Encouraging

12
602 49
Compassionate is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend

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524 47
Helpful is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Helpful

14
525 48
Thoughtful is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Thoughtful

15
576 71
Funny is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Funny

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500 58
Interesting is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Interesting

17
490 57
Authentic is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Authentic

18
490 57
Empathetic is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Empathetic

19
482 57
Nice is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Nice

20
455 57
Easy Going is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Easy Going

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500 70
Nonjudgmental is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Nonjudgmental

22
475 69
Responsible is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Responsible

23
431 64
Optimistic is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Optimistic

24
353 47
Entertaining is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Entertaining

25
353 59
Intelligent is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Intelligent

26
313 47
Generous is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Generous

27
419 94
Shares Similar Interests is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Shares Similar Interests

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325 62
Laid Back is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Laid Back

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305 57
Confident is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Confident

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306 58
Selfless is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Selfless

31
309 62
Good Communicator is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Good Communicator

32
292 57
Wise is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Wise

33
297 60
Creative is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Creative

34
323 73
Silly is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Silly

35
304 65
Adventurous is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Adventurous

36
271 56
Comfortable in Their Own Skin is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Comfortable in Their Own Skin

37
246 60
Outgoing is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Outgoing

38
254 80
Mischievous is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Mischievous

39
237 79
Similar Beliefs is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Similar Beliefs

40
241 82
Sensitive is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Sensitive

41
221 77
Innovative is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Innovative

42
226 82
Feisty is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Feisty

43
211 83
Eccentric is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Eccentric

44
181 120
Globally Aware is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Globally Aware

45
167 132
Similar Upbringing is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Similar Upbringing

46
11 21
Friend With "benefits&quo... is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
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89 213
Wealthy is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Best Qualities in a Friend
Wealthy