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Samantha Dillinger
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So you want to ask her out, but you're not sure how to do it. What are the best ways to ask a girl out? She might be your coworker, a new friend, or maybe she's even an old friend who you've developed a heightened interest for. Either way, asking a girl out can be nerve-wracking, especially if you're unprepared or you haven't asked someone out in a while. Fear not, this list has the best ideas for how to ask out a girl.

There are endless ways to ask a girl out on a date, but the real key is to be honest and confident. You like the girl – make it known. You can't go wrong with just being yourself  and asking her out to coffee or dinner. If you're looking for creative ways to as for a date, you're in luck. There are plenty of clever and cute ideas listed, too.

How do you ask a girl out? These are the most popular ways to ask a girl out and have been voted on by men and women based on what they like and what has worked for them. Cast your votes below and let love blossom.

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Ask in Person is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Ask in Person

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Be Confident is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Be Confident

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Compliment Her First is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Compliment Her First

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Offer to Do Something She Like... is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Offer to Do Something She Likes

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Reference Something She Likes is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Reference Something She Likes

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Invite Her to a New Place is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Invite Her to a New Place

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Offer to Help Her With Somethi... is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Offer to Help Her With Something

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Offer to Make Her Dinner is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Offer to Make Her Dinner

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Call Her is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Call Her

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Invite Her to Coffee is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Invite Her to Coffee

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Ask for Her Number is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Ask for Her Number

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Tell Her a Joke is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Tell Her a Joke

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Try to Get Her "Help"... is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Try to Get Her "Help" With Something

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Send Her Flowers With a Note is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Send Her Flowers With a Note

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Go Out of Your Way to Impress ... is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Go Out of Your Way to Impress Her

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Invite Her to a Concert is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Invite Her to a Concert

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Invite Her to a Group Activity is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Invite Her to a Group Activity

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Tell Her About a Movie She Nee... is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Tell Her About a Movie She Needs to See

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Buy Her a Drink at the Bar is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Buy Her a Drink at the Bar

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Write a Letter is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Write a Letter

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Give Her a Book With a Note In... is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Give Her a Book With a Note Inside

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Write Her a Song is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Write Her a Song

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In a Poem is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
In a Poem

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Dedicate a Song To Her on the ... is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Dedicate a Song To Her on the Radio

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Hide a Note for Her is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Hide a Note for Her

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Text Her is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Text Her

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Leave Clues Until She Figures ... is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Leave Clues Until She Figures It Out

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Bake Her a Cake is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Bake Her a Cake

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Hire a Sky Writer is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Hire a Sky Writer

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Send a Formal Invitation in th... is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Ryan Campbell added Send a Formal Invitation in the Mail

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Send a Facebook Message is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Send a Facebook Message

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Send Her An Email is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Send Her An Email

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Send Her a "Dating" ... is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Send Her a "Dating" Resume

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Buy Her An Outfit to Wear On t... is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Buy Her An Outfit to Wear On the Date

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Have a Friend Ask is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list What Are the Best Ways to Ask a Girl on a Date?
Have a Friend Ask