16 Confessions From People In Relationships That Made Us Question Everything

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There are secrets hidden in many relationships. However, secrets have a funny way of always surfacing, even if it is anonymously over the internet. These honest confessions from Reddit prove that no relationship is perfect. Vote up the most chaotic confessions!

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    A Wet Mistake

    From Redditor u/Used-Block9719:

    I still have no idea w*f is going on in his head to think that this was "nothing" or "no big deal".

    He literally peed on my wedding dress the night of our wedding, INSIDE the hotel room.

    I yelled at him constantly and he nonchantly said that he was just "marking his territory" and went on about how he's been wanting to do this when he gets married and that he didn't tell me because he was positively 100% sure I'd get mad at him but he said it's worth it since he got to do it.

    I couldn't believe it but he assured me that pee washes off easily and I shouldn't worry but I was just so mad and disgusted vy what he's done. He acted like nothing happened. I just can't get rid of the awful feeling and sight, I couldn't even sleep in the bed with him after that.


    TL;DR: My husband peed on my wedding dress the night of our wedding. I was so angry, I couldn't even sleep in the same bed as him.

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    Switching Out His Wife's Cat

    From Redditor u/[deleted]:

    Six years ago, I swapped my then-girlfriend now-wife's cat with a more well-behaved lookalike.

    She had an all black cat that was extremely aggressive. It scratched everyone, hissed at everyone, and didn't use its litterbox half the time. My wife insisted she could get it to behave better. One week she went out of town to visit her family and I was supposed to go to her apartment and feed it.

    The first night I went over, it scratched the sh*t out of my arm. I joked to the cat that it's not special and I'll replace it if it scratches again. The joke stuck with me until I had thought about it enough that it wasn't a joke.

    The next morning I went to the local animal shelter. Found an identical cat who was already litterbox trained and acclimated to people, but was a little skiddish (it's old owner passed of a heart problem and the animal shelter people said they think that's why it was skiddish). But overall, it was a lot friendlier and better behaved, and the skiddishness would help it resemble the original cat.

    So I adopted it, took it to my wife's apartment, settled it in, then drove her original cat to an animal shelter a town over (I was paranoid my wife would find out if I took it to a local one).

    It's been 6 years since then. We got married 4 years ago. We still have the swapped cat. It answers to the original cat's name. My wife knows nothing. She loves this cat and brags about how much better behaved it is. Everytime I see it, I feel like a total piece of sh*t.


    TL;DR: My then-girlfriend used to have an aggressive cat that would always hiss and scratch everyone. Secretly, I brought the cat to a shelter a town over and adopted an identical looking cat. We have since gotten married, and she still knows nothing.

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    Accidentally Dating A Married Man

    From Redditor u/Throw_awayP9767:

    I've been seeing this guy "Adam, 32" for 2 years. He's from another town but visits me on weekends. I never met his family, friends or been to his town. I know that he works at the church and he takes pride in that.

    3 weeks ago, I found out that he's actually married and has 2 kids, I was devastated and in a state of disbeleif but most of all, I was mad, especially after I confirmed this via his wife's social media account.

    We're still talking and I haven't broke up with him yet... I planned and decided to show myself to his family on Sunday at his church and let them know that he used me and took advantage, I plan on ending it right there and then.

    I'm currently in his town staying at a hotel, I'm doing this tomorrow and no one knows except myself. He's still texting me lies thinking that I'm stupid or ignorant.

    I feel terrible but something's pushing me to do this. Don't know if it's anger or feeling bad for his wife and kids. I just... I'm not gonna lie I'm worried this might back fire at me but at this point I have nothing to lose, I just feel like I need to get my respect and dignity back after being lied to and fooled for 2 years.


    TL;DR: I found out my boyfriend of two years is actually married and has two kids. I'm planning on showing myself at the church he works at this Sunday and letting his wife know the truth about her husband.

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    Allergic To Tree Nuts

    From Redditor u/Flamingseaturtle:

    When my husband is mad at me he eats an almond so I can’t kiss him.

    I’m deathly allergic to tree nuts. Just touching almonds makes me break out.

    It’s so mean.

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    Reading Her Boyfriend's Journal

    From Redditor u/lol-leah:

    I'm 22F and he is 33M. This morning, my boyfriend asked me to come over at 4. I said yes, got there at 4 and apparently whatever he was doing was running long and so he didn't get home until 5. So I was there by myself for an hour.

    Sitting at his desk, I saw his journal laying open and read the latest entry. I wish I hadn't and I know it's a total disrespect of privacy. But it said something like "I was looking at picture's of OP and me today, I can't believe she is my girlfriend. She *is* ugly - definitely more than a little ugly."

    Reading that it felt like I got punched in the gut. This confirms that he at least believes I'm ugly. That makes me so sad and angry.

    It p*sses me off that he holds these antiquated standards and judges me harshly from them, when he plays the character of being such a "highly evolved, spiritual, self-aware man." Labeled me ugly. Ugh I'm hurt.


    TL;DR: I was at my boyfriend's place alone for an over an hour. While I waited for him, I saw his journal was open to his last entry. I read it and found out he thinks I'm ugly. I feel hurt.

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    This Wife's Laundry Tip

    From Redditor u/Lasybossstager:

    I secretly put money in my pants pockets so my husband will do the laundry.

    I put $5 to $10 a week in my clothes. He thinks he is getting one over on me because we both have a weekly budget. He doesn't know that he is part of my budget.

    If I even try to do the laundry, he is like, "No, I got it!" Worth every cent.


    TL;DR: I always leave money in my pants pockets so that my husband will do the laundry. Now, if I even try to do the laundry, he insist he's got it.