People Reveal Secrets About Their SO They Learned After Years Of Dating That Changed Everything

Relationships are built on trust, but what happens when it turns out you can’t trust the person you’re with? What if you discovered an unbelievable secret so terrible you couldn’t even continue the relationship? These Redditors share the most horrible and heart-wrenching secrets their significant others kept from them - from undisclosed children to clandestine weddings to other people. These stories will make you think twice about the person you’re sleeping next to.

  • She Found Out Her Boyfriend Had A Child

    From Redditor /u/rtyjj:

    About one year in he told me he was about to get full custody of his son. I didn't know he had a son.

    • A Worried Girlfriend Found Out Her Boyfriend Got Married Over The Weekend

      From Redditor /u/Faeula:

      One weekend we were supposed to go out on a date and he stood me up. I couldn't get ahold of him at all. I was freaking out thinking he was dying in a ditch somewhere! 

      Turns out he had gotten married over the weekend to the girl who had given birth to his child. I never knew about them.

      • Her Husband Adhered To Outdated Gender Roles

        From Redditor /u/superslakher:

        Out of nowhere, a year into being married, he said he wanted to join the Marine Corps. He also wanted me to drop out of law school, birth babies, take care of his mother, and a run a household all while he was deployed. Hard pass.

        • She Had Multiple STDs

          From Redditor /u/Notasupervillan:

          A year in I found out she lied to [me] about getting an STD test. Turned out she had more than one STD, which somehow I tested clean for.