With hookup culture at an all-time high and an array of different ways to meet people at everyone’s disposal, daters have found themselves in a world full of options that can help them find lust instantaneously. So, these methods of meeting people have seemed to lessen the mass appeal of definitive relationships, made it increasingly difficult for those who want to actually date past a physical relationship to identify if their desires are being reciprocated. At a time when dating is as vague and confusing as ever, here are some massive, bright red flags that you shan’t ignore if you see them flowing in the frigid breezes that oft overtake the cold world of dating.
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They’re rude to employees at places you go.Waiters at restaurants, cashiers when shopping, ushers at events - if someone is rude to these types of people, it says a lot about their character and the nightmare they might be in private.Is this a major warning sign?
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They take days to respond to your texts.Look, not everyone is good at texting, and some people are busy, so they take a while to get to their phone, but if it’s taking someone days to respond, it’s a safe bet that they’re occupied elsewhere on a level that wouldn’t allow you the attention or time you’re seeking.Is this a major warning sign?
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They’re flaky.As annoying as it may be, outright canceling well in advance is always better than blowing someone off at the last minute. If a person doesn’t value your time and shows the inability to be reliable, chances are they don’t really value you, and you should head straight for the exits.Is this a major warning sign?
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They are beginning talking to/hooking up with you as their actual relationship is allegedly or actually ending.As the saying goes, if they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you.Is this a major warning sign?