dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

Michael Grimes
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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 

1
5,211 1,762
Being rude to the waitstaff

2
5,422 1,838
Being arrogant or stuck up

3
5,150 1,742
Constant negativity

4
5,951 2,029
Checking their phone constantly

5
5,070 1,721
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

6
5,204 1,816
Having no sense of humor

7
4,303 1,545
Not talking

8
1,515 490
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

9
1,448 520
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

10
4,259 1,712
Talking about her exes

11
3,729 1,517
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

12
3,604 1,476
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

13
3,708 1,698
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,416 1,589
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

The Best Qualities in a Man

15
3,156 1,468
Chewing with her mouth open

16
1,496 680
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
1,143 551
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

18
2,703 1,412
Lying about anything in her profile

19
1,402 794
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

20
2,687 1,585
Not eating on a dinner date

21
2,633 1,611
Getting way too drunk

22
2,426 1,499
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,424 1,521
Making fun of other people

24
2,433 2,170
Smoking

25
1,734 2,078
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,523 2,046
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,506 2,590
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half