reddit Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
5,263 1,899
Checking their phone constantly

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2
4,793 1,723
Being arrogant or stuck up

3
4,525 1,622
Constant negativity

4
4,467 1,616
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

5
4,554 1,654
Being rude to the waitstaff

6
4,640 1,692
Having no sense of humor

7
3,753 1,429
Not talking

8
3,716 1,598
Talking about her exes

9
3,269 1,435
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

10
1,018 399
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

11
3,160 1,401
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

12
1,010 438
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

13
3,242 1,574
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,025 1,470
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

15
2,733 1,369
Chewing with her mouth open

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16
1,144 588
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
2,350 1,324
Lying about anything in her profile

18
797 441
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

19
2,363 1,451
Not eating on a dinner date

20
1,086 682
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

21
2,283 1,493
Getting way too drunk

22
2,121 1,402
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,101 1,430
Making fun of other people

24
2,143 1,951
Smoking

25
1,503 1,884
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,338 1,844
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,355 2,301
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half