Dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

Michael Grimes
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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
5,537 1,802
Being rude to the waitstaff

2
5,446 1,773
Constant negativity

3
5,709 1,866
Being arrogant or stuck up

4
5,360 1,755
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

5
6,245 2,065
Checking their phone constantly

6
1,759 524
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

7
5,462 1,853
Having no sense of humor

8
4,549 1,590
Not talking

9
1,671 559
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

10
4,511 1,758
Talking about her exes

11
3,962 1,547
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

12
3,823 1,507
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

13
3,936 1,741
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,353 1,509
Chewing with her mouth open

15
3,605 1,634
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

16
1,654 721
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
1,308 590
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

18
2,868 1,449
Lying about anything in her profile

19
1,538 848
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

20
2,823 1,650
Not eating on a dinner date

21
2,781 1,658
Getting way too drunk

22
2,570 1,533
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,577 1,555
Making fun of other people

24
2,555 2,276
Smoking

25
1,848 2,163
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,607 2,134
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,578 2,733
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half