dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
5,491 1,933
Checking their phone constantly

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2
4,983 1,751
Being arrogant or stuck up

3
4,725 1,659
Constant negativity

4
4,761 1,685
Being rude to the waitstaff

5
4,655 1,648
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

6
4,810 1,731
Having no sense of humor

7
3,916 1,468
Not talking

8
3,891 1,634
Talking about her exes

9
1,132 430
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

10
3,389 1,465
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

11
3,272 1,424
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

12
1,123 460
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

13
3,373 1,610
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,127 1,499
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

15
2,849 1,399
Chewing with her mouth open

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16
1,226 616
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
2,437 1,352
Lying about anything in her profile

18
881 473
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

19
2,450 1,482
Not eating on a dinner date

20
1,161 714
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

21
2,371 1,528
Getting way too drunk

22
2,192 1,431
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,186 1,458
Making fun of other people

24
2,215 2,012
Smoking

25
1,560 1,934
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,378 1,896
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,387 2,374
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half