dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

Michael Grimes
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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
4,842 1,671
Constant negativity

2
5,617 1,953
Checking their phone constantly

3
5,099 1,765
Being arrogant or stuck up

4
4,877 1,699
Being rude to the waitstaff

5
4,764 1,662
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

6
4,921 1,748
Having no sense of humor

7
4,019 1,487
Not talking

8
1,232 443
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

9
3,993 1,654
Talking about her exes

10
3,483 1,478
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

11
3,362 1,439
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

12
1,212 474
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

13
3,458 1,637
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,204 1,521
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

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15
2,925 1,422
Chewing with her mouth open

16
1,293 636
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
2,507 1,372
Lying about anything in her profile

18
953 495
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

19
2,505 1,518
Not eating on a dinner date

20
1,226 739
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

21
2,439 1,552
Getting way too drunk

22
2,265 1,450
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,257 1,480
Making fun of other people

24
2,273 2,065
Smoking

25
1,597 1,986
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,417 1,943
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,417 2,434
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half