dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

Michael Grimes
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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 

1
5,202 1,761
Being rude to the waitstaff

2
5,413 1,837
Being arrogant or stuck up

3
5,141 1,741
Constant negativity

4
5,941 2,028
Checking their phone constantly

5
5,061 1,719
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

6
5,194 1,815
Having no sense of humor

7
4,294 1,545
Not talking

8
1,507 489
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

9
1,442 518
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

10
4,253 1,709
Talking about her exes

11
3,720 1,517
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

12
3,597 1,474
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

13
3,701 1,697
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,409 1,588
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

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15
3,148 1,466
Chewing with her mouth open

16
1,490 678
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
1,140 549
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

18
2,698 1,411
Lying about anything in her profile

19
1,398 793
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

20
2,681 1,585
Not eating on a dinner date

21
2,628 1,610
Getting way too drunk

22
2,422 1,498
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,421 1,520
Making fun of other people

24
2,430 2,167
Smoking

25
1,728 2,078
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,518 2,045
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,502 2,587
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half