dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

Michael Grimes
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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
5,266 1,796
Being arrogant or stuck up

2
5,797 1,987
Checking their phone constantly

3
5,010 1,707
Constant negativity

4
5,053 1,725
Being rude to the waitstaff

5
4,923 1,694
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

6
5,073 1,779
Having no sense of humor

7
4,168 1,517
Not talking

8
1,380 467
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

9
4,126 1,691
Talking about her exes

10
1,337 494
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

11
3,605 1,501
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

12
3,482 1,461
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

13
3,596 1,663
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,312 1,556
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

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15
3,043 1,445
Chewing with her mouth open

16
1,400 655
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
2,604 1,399
Lying about anything in her profile

18
1,049 526
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

19
2,601 1,555
Not eating on a dinner date

20
1,320 765
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

21
2,538 1,583
Getting way too drunk

22
2,339 1,479
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,336 1,505
Making fun of other people

24
2,353 2,126
Smoking

25
1,665 2,034
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,463 1,999
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,463 2,515
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half