dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
4,605 1,638
Constant negativity

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2
5,344 1,915
Checking their phone constantly

3
4,858 1,737
Being arrogant or stuck up

4
4,535 1,632
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

5
4,627 1,669
Being rude to the waitstaff

6
4,696 1,710
Having no sense of humor

7
3,802 1,445
Not talking

8
3,771 1,610
Talking about her exes

9
1,059 406
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

10
3,306 1,445
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

11
3,195 1,409
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

12
1,045 446
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

13
3,288 1,587
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,059 1,481
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

15
2,768 1,382
Chewing with her mouth open

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16
1,173 599
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
2,377 1,336
Lying about anything in her profile

18
827 450
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

19
2,392 1,464
Not eating on a dinner date

20
1,112 694
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

21
2,311 1,504
Getting way too drunk

22
2,142 1,412
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,135 1,439
Making fun of other people

24
2,170 1,979
Smoking

25
1,523 1,906
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,349 1,863
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,371 2,322
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half