reddit Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
4,574 1,630
Constant negativity

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2
5,312 1,907
Checking their phone constantly

3
4,832 1,727
Being arrogant or stuck up

4
4,511 1,622
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

5
4,602 1,659
Being rude to the waitstaff

6
4,675 1,698
Having no sense of humor

7
3,784 1,434
Not talking

8
3,747 1,605
Talking about her exes

9
1,043 402
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

10
3,292 1,439
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

11
3,181 1,405
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

12
1,030 442
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

13
3,273 1,581
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,044 1,476
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

15
2,753 1,376
Chewing with her mouth open

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16
1,158 594
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
2,366 1,330
Lying about anything in her profile

18
815 446
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

19
2,380 1,457
Not eating on a dinner date

20
1,102 688
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

21
2,300 1,499
Getting way too drunk

22
2,132 1,408
Talking constantly about herself

23
2,121 1,436
Making fun of other people

24
2,161 1,970
Smoking

25
1,515 1,896
Talking about Western medicine being a scam

26
1,344 1,856
Making a point to tell you "what type of person she is"

27
1,364 2,314
If she doesn't at least reach for the check or offer to pay her half