Dating Guys Reveal First Date Turnoffs You Do Without Realizing  

Michael Grimes
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List Rules Guys - vote on the things that girls do on first dates that totally turn you off. Please only vote if you are male!

Here are guys' biggest first-date deal breakers, ranked. We went to AskMen to find out more about men and dating, and what the biggest turn offs for guys really are.  Ladies, if you're wondering what not to do on a first date, read up and take notes. First date etiquette can be tough to navigate, but checking out these things not to do on a first date can help you nail it (pun!). 
list ordered by

1
1,919 545
SegaGega 32X added She Tries to Find Excuses to Be Mean

2
5,739 1,818
Being rude to the waitstaff

3
5,639 1,786
Constant negativity

4
5,890 1,880
Being arrogant or stuck up

5
6,448 2,077
Checking their phone constantly

6
5,540 1,777
Bringing a friend along without saying anything about it first

7
5,635 1,867
Having no sense of humor

8
4,710 1,607
Not talking

9
1,805 579
SegaGega 32X added Looks Down Upon How You Are Entertained

10
4,667 1,779
Talking about her exes

11
4,108 1,560
Talking over you and never letting you get a word in edge-wise

12
3,958 1,521
Talking about how important she is to everyone she knows

13
4,067 1,767
Thick, caked-on makeup

14
3,483 1,526
Chewing with her mouth open

15
3,725 1,660
Assuming you'll do everything because "you're the guy"

16
1,752 748
Robert Babaev added Drops Out After Five Minutes On an Activity Date

17
1,410 610
Odhiambo Otieno added Fishes for Compliments

18
2,966 1,472
Lying about anything in her profile

19
1,624 876
Jeromy Morrow added Appearing Sloppy

20
2,914 1,682
Not eating on a dinner date

21
2,673 1,549
Talking constantly about herself

22
2,880 1,682
Getting way too drunk

23
2,676 1,570
Making fun of other people

24
2,636 2,330
Smoking

25
1,925 2,210
Talking about Western medicine being a scam