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Mel Judson
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Are you someone who often says to a friend, "I'm paranoid that people are talking about me?" So many of us are and there is a good chance you'll get a handful of knowledge from this list of ways to know if someone is talking about you. Throughout our lives, from elementary school to the nursing home, we want to know how to know if people are talking about us. Though it is hard to ever be 100% positive about being the center of gossip, this list compiles the best ways to find out if somebody is talking about you behind your back.

Use this list as your guide when investigating the gossip crime scene. It is full of helpful tips and ways to get paranoid people to rest assured they have reason to calm down. If people aren't exhibiting these signs, then there's a good chance you are just being paranoid that people are talking about you for no good reason! And if your friends are talking smack about you, are they really your friends?

This list shows you how to know if people are talking about you and you will not regret checking it out. Find out how to catch 'em with this ultimate ranking of ways to know people are gossiping about you behind your back and you'll never have to ask "is someone talking smack about me?" ever again!
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Hot and Cold


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The way to know if people are talking about you is by studying who they are. This is especially true of the way they have been particularly acting towards you - and acting towards you lately. If someone is being hot and cold, on and off, friendly and unfriendly with you, this could speak to the fact that they're talking behind your back.
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The Turn and Talk


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Check your back. If you are someone who is often, or perhaps just recently, wondering, "Are people talking about me behind my back?" then the best way to know is to keep a close watch on things behind you. Of course, humans have yet to evolve with eyes in the back of their heads, but we've been blessed with a decent sense of listeners, so perk up those ears!
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Why Are You Whispering?


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If folks are a-whisperin' in places that seem awkward to be whispering in, it very well might be about you. One of the tell-tale signs of people talking smack about someone nearby is lowering of the voice. Remember: secrets, secrets are no fun...
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Say My Name


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Sure, your name might be common. But if you're the only Xavier at the workplace, one has to wonder if you're the same Xavier who's at the center of some scandalous office rumors. People who say, "I'm paranoid that people are talking about me" can start to perk their ears legitimately once they overhear their own names.

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