All The Men Jennifer Lopez Has Dated

Who is Jennifer Lopez dating? Many famous men have dated Jennifer Lopez, and this list will give you more details about these lucky dudes. Including JLo's current boyfriend, past relationships, and dating rumors, this comprehensive dating history tells you everything you need to know about the Marry Me star's love life. 

This list features Jennifer Lopez’s ex-boyfriends, along with additional information about them, such as when they were born and what they do professionally. These men come in all shapes and sizes, but what they all have in common is that they're all men that Jennifer Lopez has either dated or had a brief fling with. 

Jennifer Lopez was married to Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998. Then the Jennifer Lopez husband was Cris Judd from 2001 to 2003. She was then married to Marc Anthony, with whom she shares twins Emme and Max, from 2004 to 2014. Jennifer Lopez got engaged to Alex Rodriguez in March 2019, and they were set to marry in June 2020. However, the pandemic hit around mid-March, and by April 2021, the pair had called it quits. 

This list of Jennifer Lopez’s boyfriends and exes includes Casper Smart and Maksim Chmerkovskiy.

Jennifer Lopez is currently married to Ben Affleck, with whom she was previously engaged in 2002.

  • Ben Affleck
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    After meeting on the set of Gigli, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez started dating in 2002. They were engaged later that year, but they called off their 2003 wedding shortly before it was scheduled to take place. By January 2004, they were over.

    In May 2021, the pair appeared to have rekindled their romance, 17 years later, after Lopez's split from fiance Alex Rodriguez. They were seen first on a getaway to Montana, and then apparently getting flirty while working out at Anatomy Fitness in Miami. A source told Entertainment Tonight that they were "not trying to hide their relationship by any means," and added, “They stayed close to each other while working out and were hugging, being playful together. It was clear to everyone that they have intense chemistry and were having fun together.”

    In her April 8, 2022, JLo newsletter, the actress confirmed that she and Affleck were once again engaged. In a tearful video message sent to fans, she showed off her ring, saying, "You're perfect." 

    The former early 2000s power couple finally went through with their nuptials on July 16, 2022, in Las Vegas, Nevada, the Marry Me star confirmed the following day via her On the JLo newsletter

    "We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient. Exactly what we wanted. Last night we flew to Vegas, stood in line for a license with four other couples, all making the same journey to the wedding capital of the world," JLo wrote in her newsletter. Bennifer tied the knot in a “small” ceremony, with a source telling People, “It was super, super small. They just wanted to be married, so they got married.” 

    • Age: 50
    • Birthplace: Berkeley, California, United States of America
  • Alex Rodriguez
    Photo: Jennifer Lopez / Instagram

    Jennifer Lopez started dating Alex Rodriguez in late 2016. The pair were engaged on March 9, 2019.

    There had been reports in March 2021 that the two had split, but they took to TMZ to clarify, saying they were still together, but were working on things. Split rumors initially came after A-Rod was linked to Southern Charm's Madison LeCroy during the show's season 7 reunion. He denied any wrongdoing, however.

    In April 2021, the pair released a statement to the Today show that they had ended their engagement, because they were "better off as friends." 

    Alexander Emmanuel Rodriguez (born July 27, 1975), nicknamed "A-Rod", is an American former professional baseball shortstop and third baseman who played 22 seasons in Major League Baseball (MLB), primarily with the New York Yankees. He also played for the Seattle Mariners and Texas Rangers. Rodriguez began his professional career as one of the sport's most highly touted prospects, and is considered to be one of the greatest baseball players of all time. Rodriguez amassed a .295 batting average, over 600 home runs (696), over 2,000 runs batted in (RBI), over 2,000 runs scored, over 3,000 hits, and over 300 stolen bases, the only player in MLB history to achieve all of those feats. He was ...more
    • Age: 47
    • Birthplace: Washington Heights, New York, USA
  • Drake
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    In late 2016, Jennifer Lopez and Drake were rumored to be dating. 

    Aubrey Drake Graham, who records under the mononym Drake, is a Canadian singer, songwriter, and actor. He was born in Toronto, Ontario. He first garnered recognition for his role as Jimmy Brooks on the television series Degrassi: The Next Generation. He later rose to prominence as a rapper, releasing several mixtapes like Room for Improvement before signing to Lil Wayne's Young Money Entertainment in June 2009. Drake's EP, So Far Gone, spawned the hit single "Best I Ever Had" and the moderate hit "Successful". His first studio album, Thank Me Later, debuted at number one on the Billboard 200 and generated notable singles, "Over" and "Find Your Love". It was certified Platinum by the ...more
    • Age: 36
    • Birthplace: Toronto, Canada
  • Maksim Chmerkovskiy
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    Jennifer Lopez and Maksim Chmerkovskiy were rumored to have been in a relationship in 2014.

    • Age: 43
    • Birthplace: Odessa, Ukraine
  • Casper Smart
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    Casper Smart

    Jennifer Lopez dated her former back-up dancer Casper Smart from 2011 - 2014.
  • Bradley Cooper
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    In 2011, Jennifer Lopez and Bradley Cooper created headlines after they were spotted on a dinner date in New York City.
    Bradley Charles Cooper (born January 5, 1975) is an American actor and filmmaker. He has been nominated for many awards, including seven Academy Awards and a Tony Award, and has won a Grammy Award and a BAFTA Award. Cooper appeared in Forbes Celebrity 100 on three occasions and Time's list of 100 most influential people in the world in 2015. His films have grossed $11 billion worldwide and he was named one of the world's highest-paid actors for four years. Cooper enrolled in the MFA program at the Actors Studio at The New School in New York City in 2000. His career began in 1999 with a guest role in the television series Sex and the City. He made his film debut two years later in the comedy ...more
    • Age: 48
    • Birthplace: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States of America