"I did feel sick a few times..."
"Lots of women trying to touch you happens, and the first ones to grab your stuff are the last ones you'd want to have grab your stuff.
A few brides were pressured into trying to have sex with me, which I declined. The longer I maintained some degree of chub, the more money I could make, and by the end of the night everyone would be totally hammered.
As most women would be totally drunk by the end of the night, and I'd be pretty tired and annoyed of all the screaming, usually I'd go home without actually going all the way with anyone. Sleeping with a drunk girl you don't know might sound like a great time to most guys, but I dunno, I just felt really bad if I even thought of it.
I did feel sick a few times seeing how the brides were pressured into trying to cheat." (source)
"It is honestly kind of scary..."
"Lot's of overweight women screaming and grabbing your c*ck. Lot's of d*ck sucking and request for 'private time'. It is honestly kind of scary when you look at the overall scene. I always had to have a few drinks before I went out. Ultimately I couldn't take the heat and quit after about 2 months. One particularly bad evening I had a 300+ lb. woman grabbing and pulling my c*ck as I was trying to go the other way... that was my last night. Also, I worked in Newark, NJ... Not the best place and way to many drugs floating around for my liking. The money was good though. Women are probably worse than men because they honestly believe that they can have you if they want you... and they don't take 'NO' very well." (source)
"But to answer the question, yes crazy sh*t goes down."
"OK so I lived in Austin TX for 8 years after my long term GF and I split up. I worked as a bartender for a few years and was approached by a lady one night and she asked if I ever thought about being a male stripper. I jumped at the offer. I can tell you 60% of the time it was somewhat straight-up stripping and the 40 percent got pretty crazy. I have had bridesmaides mainly asking to to give head. The craziest was when 2 of the friends of the bride both were giving me head and after the party asking if we could all have a little more fun including the bride. I was in a pretty bad place in my life back then and drugs played a big part. Needless to say I complied with their request and at first didn't really care but looking back I feel like a dirt bag. But to answer the question yes crazy sh*t goes down." (source)
"Definitely lots of screaming and offers for 'private time',"
"Gay male stripper for 2 years in Chicago. I can absolutely confirm blowjays. I did hen parties, and a few stag parties. Weirdly, my agency only sent a minder with me to male parties, not the female ones. Needless to say, hen parties were the more uncomfortable of the two. Dudes were always really nice for the most part. Once though, a guy tried to drag me into his car while I was smoking a cigarette outside after the party. Luckily, my minder happened to walk out the door exactly then. The ladies never tried to kidnap me or anything, but definitely lots of screaming and offers for 'private time'." (source)