Dating 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)  

Danielle Dauenhauer
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List Rules Men only: vote up what you're most embarrassed about in bed.

Sex! It's great...until you start worrying that it's not. Whether it's the first time with your partner or your first time period, there are plenty of things men worry about during sex that really aren't THAT important to women. Men's sexual insecurities include many of the same things women worry about - how they look naked, whether they're satisfying their partner, and if they're good enough at sex. This poll of what men are embarrassed about in bed is part bonding for guys, part wake-up call that everybody's worrying about this stuff (but most people don't care). Of all the things men are embarrassed about during sex, these are the ones most guys worry about most (but probably shouldn't). Make your opinion known!

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927 307
*Actually* satisfying her is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
*Actually* satisfying her

2
890 305
Not lasting long enough is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not lasting long enough

3
807 336
Not being able to make her org... is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to make her orgasm

4
697 454
Being big enough is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being big enough

5
639 404
Wondering whether or not she&#... is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Wondering whether or not she's actually into it

6
557 483
Maintaining an erection is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Maintaining an erection

7
452 552
Her having an ex that was bett... is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Her having an ex that was better in bed

8
406 564
Not being girthy enough is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being girthy enough

9
344 490
Not doing enough foreplay is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not doing enough foreplay

10
356 512
Making her bored is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Making her bored

11
335 484
Not being able to finish is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to finish

12
355 521
It having been so long since t... is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
It having been so long since they last had sex

13
369 554
Not being dominant enough is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being dominant enough

14
322 514
Being bad at talking dirty is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being bad at talking dirty

15
288 513
Not being able to orgasm is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to orgasm

16
265 500
Possibly hurting her is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Possibly hurting her

17
271 527
Being bad at oral is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being bad at oral

18
265 516
Taking too long is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Taking too long

19
247 489
Not being able to keep up with... is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to keep up with her

20
242 485
Being too quiet is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too quiet

21
244 521
Not being clean enough is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being clean enough

22
221 510
Masturbating in front of her is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Masturbating in front of her

23
196 507
Not being freaky enough for he... is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being freaky enough for her

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163 505
It possibly being awkward afte... is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
It possibly being awkward after

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176 552
Having not enough ejaculate is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having not enough ejaculate

26
140 530
Not having had enough partners is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not having had enough partners

27
131 513
Being too submissive is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too submissive

28
123 504
Having had too many partners is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having had too many partners

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99 509
Being too dominant is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too dominant

30
101 548
Getting their penis broken is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Getting their penis broken

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96 570
Being too big is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too big

32
88 538
Making too much noise is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Making too much noise

33
85 563
Having balls that are too smal... is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are too small

34
58 565
Having balls that are too big is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are too big

35
56 570
Having too much ejaculate is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having too much ejaculate

36
43 572
Having balls that are differen... is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are different sizes