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Danielle Dauenhauer
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List Rules Men only: vote up what you're most embarrassed about in bed.

Sex! It's great...until you start worrying that it's not. Whether it's the first time with your partner or your first time period, there are plenty of things men worry about during sex that really aren't THAT important to women. Men's sexual insecurities include many of the same things women worry about - how they look naked, whether they're satisfying their partner, and if they're good enough at sex. This poll of what men are embarrassed about in bed is part bonding for guys, part wake-up call that everybody's worrying about this stuff (but most people don't care). Of all the things men are embarrassed about during sex, these are the ones most guys worry about most (but probably shouldn't). Make your opinion known!

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883 293
*Actually* satisfying her is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
*Actually* satisfying her

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2
857 291
Not lasting long enough is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not lasting long enough

3
775 318
Not being able to make her org... is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to make her orgasm

4
665 432
Being big enough is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being big enough

5
614 391
Wondering whether or not she&#... is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Wondering whether or not she's actually into it

6
532 463
Maintaining an erection is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Maintaining an erection

7
427 534
Her having an ex that was bett... is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Her having an ex that was better in bed

8
384 544
Not being girthy enough is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being girthy enough

9
339 494
Making her bored is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Making her bored

10
326 475
Not doing enough foreplay is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not doing enough foreplay

11
341 504
It having been so long since t... is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
It having been so long since they last had sex

12
357 535
Not being dominant enough is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being dominant enough

13
312 468
Not being able to finish is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to finish

14
307 493
Being bad at talking dirty is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being bad at talking dirty

15
274 489
Not being able to orgasm is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to orgasm

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16
254 475
Possibly hurting her is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Possibly hurting her

17
253 493
Taking too long is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Taking too long

18
258 509
Being bad at oral is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being bad at oral

19
235 475
Not being able to keep up with... is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to keep up with her

20
225 467
Being too quiet is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too quiet

21
229 504
Not being clean enough is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being clean enough

22
211 494
Masturbating in front of her is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Masturbating in front of her

23
188 490
Not being freaky enough for he... is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being freaky enough for her

24
172 531
Having not enough ejaculate is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having not enough ejaculate

25
158 490
It possibly being awkward afte... is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
It possibly being awkward after

26
136 512
Not having had enough partners is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not having had enough partners

27
130 495
Being too submissive is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too submissive

28
118 488
Having had too many partners is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having had too many partners

29
95 495
Being too dominant is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too dominant

30
98 530
Getting their penis broken is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Getting their penis broken

31
88 520
Making too much noise is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Making too much noise

32
93 552
Being too big is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too big

33
84 541
Having balls that are too smal... is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are too small

34
55 546
Having balls that are too big is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are too big

35
54 551
Having too much ejaculate is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having too much ejaculate

36
42 551
Having balls that are differen... is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are different sizes