dating 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)  

Danielle Dauenhauer
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List Rules Men only: vote up what you're most embarrassed about in bed.

Sex! It's great...until you start worrying that it's not. Whether it's the first time with your partner or your first time period, there are plenty of things men worry about during sex that really aren't THAT important to women. Men's sexual insecurities include many of the same things women worry about - how they look naked, whether they're satisfying their partner, and if they're good enough at sex. This poll of what men are embarrassed about in bed is part bonding for guys, part wake-up call that everybody's worrying about this stuff (but most people don't care). Of all the things men are embarrassed about during sex, these are the ones most guys worry about most (but probably shouldn't). Make your opinion known!

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1
899 296
*Actually* satisfying her is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
*Actually* satisfying her

2
870 296
Not lasting long enough is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not lasting long enough

3
791 321
Not being able to make her org... is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to make her orgasm

4
677 443
Being big enough is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being big enough

5
623 396
Wondering whether or not she&#... is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Wondering whether or not she's actually into it

6
541 470
Maintaining an erection is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Maintaining an erection

7
434 542
Her having an ex that was bett... is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Her having an ex that was better in bed

8
389 553
Not being girthy enough is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being girthy enough

9
335 480
Not doing enough foreplay is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not doing enough foreplay

10
345 502
Making her bored is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Making her bored

11
344 511
It having been so long since t... is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
It having been so long since they last had sex

12
323 474
Not being able to finish is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to finish

13
361 543
Not being dominant enough is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being dominant enough

14
311 502
Being bad at talking dirty is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being bad at talking dirty

The Funniest Pick-Up Lines

15
282 498
Not being able to orgasm is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to orgasm

16
256 484
Possibly hurting her is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Possibly hurting her

17
259 501
Taking too long is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Taking too long

18
261 516
Being bad at oral is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being bad at oral

19
238 479
Not being able to keep up with... is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being able to keep up with her

20
232 472
Being too quiet is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too quiet

21
234 510
Not being clean enough is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being clean enough

How to Get a Girl to Like You

22
216 500
Masturbating in front of her is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Masturbating in front of her

23
190 496
Not being freaky enough for he... is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not being freaky enough for her

24
173 537
Having not enough ejaculate is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having not enough ejaculate

25
158 497
It possibly being awkward afte... is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
It possibly being awkward after

26
137 519
Not having had enough partners is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Not having had enough partners

27
131 501
Being too submissive is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too submissive

28
122 492
Having had too many partners is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having had too many partners

29
96 501
Being too dominant is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too dominant

30
99 537
Getting their penis broken is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Getting their penis broken

31
94 558
Being too big is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Being too big

32
88 527
Making too much noise is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Making too much noise

33
84 548
Having balls that are too smal... is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are too small

34
55 553
Having balls that are too big is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are too big

35
55 557
Having too much ejaculate is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having too much ejaculate

36
42 558
Having balls that are differen... is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list 36 Insecurities Men Have About Sex (That They're Afraid To Tell You)
Having balls that are different sizes