If you're a single woman over the age of 25, you've inevitably been asked about your childbearing timeline. But what if you're one of those people who simply doesn't want kids? That's fine! Just because every Stephanie, Michelle, and Danica are having kids and blasting it all over your Facebook feed doesn't mean you, too, need children. We're bringing you a list of reasons not to have kids so you can stop feeling so guilty about it and live the life you've secretly always dreamed of... a child free one!
Back in the day, getting married and having a family was the common life course for 20-somethings across the States. If you didn't have a trophy husband/wife and three kids to show off, something was obviously wrong with you. But with demanding professions, opportunities to live unconventionally, and over seven billion people on the planet, it seems like people are thinking twice before popping out a couple spawns. It's totally fine to say, " I don't want kids!"
When it comes to deciding to have a family, we have to remember that singsong childhood cliche - everyone's different. Not everyone has a strong pull to procreate nor do they feel the desire to be defined by a family. Whether you've found contentment in your spouse, your pet, ice cream, your career... some people are totally happy spending their lives without the traditional family structure.Bottom line? Whatever you choose for yourself is the right choice for you! But if you've been on the fence about having your own family, or if you're just trying to better understand how some people don't want children, check out this list of reasons to not have kids. Leave a comment if you're willing to share you own feelings on the subject!
1 1,632 111 HoserUSC added Disposable Income Is AWESOME If I'm going to spend a bunch of money on extra-curricular activities, I'll be the one participating, thanks
2 1,531 129 They're Extremely Expensive
For an average middle-class American family, it costs $245,000 to raise one child. Source: CNN
For an average middle-class American family, it costs $245,000 to raise one child.Source: CNN
3 1,419 196 You Don't Need a Child to Define Your Womanhood Never let social norms make you feel like child bearing defines womanhood.
4 1,361 192 HoserUSC added You Like Nice Things Think your white...ANYTHING will stay white with kids around? Think again...
5 1,286 185 Your Schedule Will Become Someone Else's Schedule No matter how much you try to preserve it, kids will squash your schedule.
6 1,288 217 You Will Literally Lose Tons of Sleep
New parents lost approximately 1,500 hours of sleep in the first 12 months of parenthood. Source: Ergoflex
New parents lost approximately 1,500 hours of sleep in the first 12 months of parenthood.Source: Ergoflex
7 1,281 254 You Value Your Alone Time More than Anything How will you lock yourself in your room with a book after work?
8 429 38 KuroshiDori added You Like Your Peace and Quiet.
9 1,123 249 You're Not at All Worried About "Feeling Incomplete" Some people say a child will complete you, which is 100% not true.
10 1,092 244 HoserUSC added Recreational Travel Is Unnecessarily Difficult Who wants to change crappy diapers on a plane? Seriously.
11 958 248 Kids Will Change Your Relationship Dynamic Remember all that sex you guys enjoyed? Roll it in a Pampers and can it.
12 1,005 313 The Declining State of the Planet Troubles You
You know things are bad when pollinators plummet towards extinction. We need more bees, not more kids. Source: BBC
You know things are bad when pollinators plummet towards extinction. We need more bees, not more kids.Source: BBC
13 900 288 You're Severely Impatient Always been impatient? Your kids will test that weakness daily.
14 1,004 349 You've Never Had a Strong Desire to Be a Parent Some people never have that maternal extinct. And that's not a bad thing.
15 871 307 You're Completely Satisfied with Your Life Regardless of what those old boobs say, it's okay to be happy without children!
16 816 318 They Might Inherit Unlucky Genetic Conditions Do some research. See which genes and diseases you could potentially pass on.
17 800 312 You Can Adopt Children Who Need Families
There are currently more than 397,000 kids in the foster care system in the U.S. Source: CCAI Institute
There are currently more than 397,000 kids in the foster care system in the U.S.Source: CCAI Institute
18 739 305 The Possibility of Regret Doesn't Intimidate You You can't base childbearing on possible future regret.
19 773 346 You Appreciate a Strong Cocktail Multiple Nights of the Week If you're still sippin' gin and tonics Monday-Sunday, give a baby more thought.
20 633 447 You're Worried About Over Population
There are over 7 billion people in the world. 'Nuff said. Source: worldometers
There are over 7 billion people in the world. 'Nuff said.Source: worldometers