culture Red Flags That Mean Your Boyfriend Will Be a Dud in a Year  

Ashley Reign
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List Rules Vote up the biggest red flags that mean a guy's got a REALLY short relationship shelf-life.

Is your dude always talking about himself? Or does he humblebrag about his former sexual conquests, like he doesn't have a clue how that might make you feel? Stuff like this can sometimes be innocent - naive, perhaps - but these behaviors could also be relationship red flags. If you're dating a guy and you're trying to figure out how to know he is the one, watch out for the dating red flags below. They might just mean you're dude's gonna turn out a dud after you two settle into a relationship together. 


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1
646 233
Never following through on things, then making excuses about why

2
577 211
Being selfish and always putting his needs first

3
481 171
The seeming, constant inability to be thoughtful or attentive

4
573 225
Being unable to admit it when he's wrong

5
592 251
Being rude, condescending, or excessivly teasing

6
485 202
Being seemingly incapable of empathy

7
608 275
Showing more interest in his phone than you

8
523 228
Using rationalizations like "I'm just being honest" to justify hurting your feelings

9
427 176
Constantly shifting the focus away from you - and to himself

10
560 259
Being unable to listen without constantly interrupting

11
463 206
Drinking a lot or using drugs all the time

12
421 189
Expecting you to always clean up after him

13
449 207
Being laid back to the point that he has no ambitions at all

14
397 187
Dropping weird, vague hints instead of communicating clearly, like a normal person

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15
445 217
Being too controlling, jealous, or clingy

16
428 207
Constantly complaining and having an overly pessimistic outlook on life

17
443 232
Dropping hints and humblebragging about his "player" lifestyle or excessively promiscuous past

18
388 231
Being disrespectful to waiters or retail workers

19
335 194
Not being able to keep himself and/or his environment reasonably clean

20
367 229
Making sexist, racist, or homophobic comments

21
328 208
Constantly expecting you to pick up the bill

22
208 120
Judyt added Putting You Down Publicly and Privately:

23
311 205
Being excessively sarcastic or having major trouble being sincere

24
294 213
Being a total push-over and/or incapable of making his own decisions

25
285 228
Not having a life, friends, or hobbies of his own

26
53 26
Sarah Rasch added Being Secretive and Deceitful.

27
41 37
Sarah Rasch added Not Including You or Not Inviting You When He Goes Somewhere

28
22 46
Sheila Jenkins added Comparing You to Your Face With Women He Thinks Are Hotter.