List Rules Vote up the biggest red flags that mean a guy's got a REALLY short relationship shelf-life.
Is your dude always talking about himself? Or does he humblebrag about his former sexual conquests, like he doesn't have a clue how that might make you feel? Stuff like this can sometimes be innocent - naive, perhaps - but these behaviors could also be relationship red flags. If you're dating a guy and you're trying to figure out how to know he is the one, watch out for the dating red flags below. They might just mean you're dude's gonna turn out a dud after you two settle into a relationship together.
Being selfish and always putting his needs first
Never following through on things, then making excuses about why
The seeming, constant inability to be thoughtful or attentive
Being unable to admit it when he's wrong
Being seemingly incapable of empathy
Being rude, condescending, or excessivly teasing
Constantly shifting the focus away from you - and to himself
Using rationalizations like "I'm just being honest" to justify hurting your feelings
Showing more interest in his phone than you
Being unable to listen without constantly interrupting
Drinking a lot or using drugs all the time
Expecting you to always clean up after him
Dropping weird, vague hints instead of communicating clearly, like a normal person
Being laid back to the point that he has no ambitions at all