Robert Downey Jr.'s Loves & Hookups

Who is Robert Downey Jr. dating? Who Robert Downey Jr. dated; list of Robert Downey Jr. loves, ex girlfriends; breakup rumors. The loves, exes and relationships of Robert Downey Jr., listed by most recent. Robert Downey Jr. has been married twice, so if you're looking for a past wife, you'll find her below!

This list contains information about Robert Downey Jr.'s exes like Marisa Tomei and Sarah Jessica Parker. 

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  • Susan Downey
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    Robert Downey Jr. has been married to his wife Susan since 2005.
    Susan Nicole Downey (née Levin; born November 6, 1973) is an American film producer. Until February 2009, she was Co-President of Dark Castle Entertainment and Executive Vice President of Production at Silver Pictures, Joel Silver's production company, but has since stepped down to work more closely with her husband, Robert Downey Jr. The couple have formed their own production house named Team Downey.
    • Age: 49
    • Birthplace: Schaumburg, Illinois
  • Calista Flockhart
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    Robert Downey Jr. and Calista Flockhart were rumored to be an item back in 2000.

  • Marisa Tomei
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    Robert Downey Jr. dated his Only You co-star Marisa Tomei in 1994.
    Marisa Tomei (, Italian: [toˈmɛi]; born December 4, 1964) is an American actress. She is the recipient of various accolades including an Academy Award and nominations for a BAFTA Award, two Golden Globe Awards, and three Screen Actors Guild Awards. Following her work on the television series As the World Turns, she came to prominence as a cast member on The Cosby Show spin-off A Different World in 1987. After having minor roles in a few films, she came to international attention in 1992 with the comedy My Cousin Vinny, for which she received an Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress. She received two additional Academy Award nominations for In the Bedroom (2001) and The Wrestler ...more
    • Age: 58
    • Birthplace: Brooklyn, New York, USA
  • Deborah Falconer
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    Robert Downey Jr. and Deborah Falconer were married from 1992 - 2004.
    Deborah Falconer (born August 13, 1965) is an American singer, songwriter, model, and actress. Her first album was Untangle. She released her second album, Brave Like Me, on July 22, 2003. Her third album, Lift Your Gaze, was released on October 18, 2014.
    • Age: 57
    • Birthplace: USA, California, Sacramento
  • Winona Ryder
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    Rumor has it that Robert Downey Jr. linked up with Winona Ryder in 1988.

    Winona Laura Horowitz (born October 29, 1971), known professionally as Winona Ryder, is an American actress. She is the recipient of a Golden Globe Award and has been nominated for two Academy Awards, a BAFTA Award, and four Screen Actors Guild Awards. Following her film debut in Lucas (1986), Ryder came to attention with her performance in Tim Burton's Beetlejuice (1988). She rose to prominence with starring roles in such films as Heathers (1988), Mermaids (1990), Edward Scissorhands (1990), and Bram Stoker's Dracula (1992). Her career was further enhanced when she garnered critical acclaim and two consecutive Academy Award nominations for her portrayal of socialite May Welland in Martin ...more
    • Age: 51
    • Birthplace: USA, Minnesota
  • Sarah Jessica Parker
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    Robert Downey Jr. and Sarah Jessica Parker dated from 1984 - 1991.
    Sarah Jessica Parker (born March 25, 1965) is an American actress, producer, and designer. She is known for her role as Carrie Bradshaw on the HBO television series Sex and the City (1998–2004), for which she won two Emmy Awards, four Golden Globe Awards for Best Actress in a Comedy Series and three Screen Actors Guild Awards. The character was widely popular during the airing of the series and was later recognized as one of the greatest female characters in American television. She later reprised the role in films Sex and the City (2008) and Sex and the City 2 (2010). Parker made her Broadway debut at the age of 11 in the 1976 revival of The Innocents, before going on to star in the title ...more
    • Age: 58
    • Birthplace: Nelsonville, Ohio, USA