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Surprisingly Emotional Moments In 'How I Met Your Mother'

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Vote up the most gut wrenching moments.

How I Met Your Mother wasn't just the story of how a single guy in New York City met the girl of his dreams, but the story of five maladjusted young adults figuring out the meaning of life, one step at a time. While that sounds funny on paper, there were plenty of sad moments and emotional scenes that stemmed from their misadventures, including heartbreak, trauma, jealousy, and even death. Ted was the center of the story but these emotional moments were equally shared between Marshall, Lily, Robin, and Barney. 

If you didn't already plan to re-watch the series, here are some surprisingly emotional moments in How I Met Your Mother

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    86 VOTES

    Marshall's Dad Dies

    Marshall's Dad Dies
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    Marshall is objectively the nicest character on How I Met Your Mother, which makes it extra hard to watch him go through traumatic events. The season 6 episode "Bad News" delivered the shocker that Marshall's father, Marvin Erikson Sr., had passed away from a sudden heart attack. Although it seemed out of the blue at first, Marshall grieving his father's death was the right emotional beat that helped Marshall transform into a responsible and loving father - just like Marvin was to him. 

    86 votes
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    66 VOTES

    When Barney Finally Confronts His Dad For Leaving

    When Barney Finally Confronts His Dad For Leaving
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    While fans were waiting to find out the identity of The Mother, there was another juicy reveal waiting to be unearthed: The identity of Barney's biological father. In season 6, it was finally revealed that the man responsible for creating Barney was Jerome Whittaker, a boring family man (played by the amazing John Lithgow). Barney fantasized that his father would be "cool" just like he was, but when he found out that Jerome was just a typical dad, it angered him. Barney couldn't justify being abandoned by his father for no good reason, which only confused and saddened him even more. 

    66 votes
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    59 VOTES

    When Ted And Lily Chose To Confide In One Another

    When Ted And Lily Chose To Confide In One Another
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    Ted and Lily's relationship has always been special. Ted never treated Lily as a third wheel but as a friend of his own, like she was one of the guys. Ted was mad at Lily when she left New York without saying goodbye to him but they've since reconciled their relationship and remain as close as ever. When Lily realized that Ted wasn't over his feelings for Robin, she gave him a venue to vent out his feelings (however absurd they may be) by admitting that she sometimes hates being a mom. Ted and Lily's relationship is as wholesome as it gets. 

    59 votes
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    58 VOTES

    Ted Imagining More Time With Tracy

    Ted Imagining More Time With Tracy
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    The season 8 episode "The Time Travelers" wasn't your usual How I Met Your Mother episode. The majority of the episode took place at MacLaren's pub and focused on Barney trying to convince Ted to go see Robots vs. Wrestlers with him. It is revealed near the end that Ted was misremembering a story from five years ago and he's actually sitting all alone at MacLaren's with a single ticket to Robots vs. Wrestlers. He tells his kids that if he had the power to go back to that night, he wouldn't go to the show but to his future wife's apartment and beg to spend the extra 45 days with her before they met. At the time this was a cute gesture but after learning that Tracy dies halfway into their marriage, this is utterly heartbreaking and moving. 

    58 votes
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    61 VOTES

    Barney's Daughter Ellie Is Born

    Barney's Daughter Ellie Is Born
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    The series finale "Last Forever - Part Two" was a letdown in a lot of ways, but where it fully delivered was closing off Barney's storyline in the best way possible. In the finale, it is revealed that Barney had broken off his marriage with Robin and had gone back to his bachelor ways. That is until one of his hookups results in the birth of his daughter, Ellie. You see, it wasn't a matrimonial commitment that was ever going to stop Barney from being sleazy with women - but a daughter of his own. Now that he knows what it's like to be the father of a young girl, he's probably going to think twice before going back to his old ways. 

    61 votes
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    60 VOTES

    Lily And Marshall Break Up

    Lily And Marshall Break Up
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    Lily and Marshall's breakup in the season 1 finale was one of the biggest shockers the show has ever delivered. Lily and Marshall are set up as the perfect couple from the first episode, getting engaged to each other from the get-go. But as the show quickly warned its viewers, life isn't all rainbows and fairy tales. There's nuance to every relationship, including the ones that seem perfect. Lily and Marshall were perfect for each other but they got together at a young age, without really experiencing all that life has to offer before getting married. Thankfully, though, Lily saw the light and came back to her one true love. 

    60 votes