Gifts The Best Gifts to Give Yourself  

Ashley Reign
8k votes 642 voters 12.8k views 39 items

List Rules Vote up the gifts we should all be giving ourselves a little more often.

Ever get so busy trying to keep everyone in your life happy that you totally forget yourself? If so, fear not! Here, you'll find a list of good self care ideas for the days when you just need a break from adulting. The best gifts to give yourself, many of which are either free or incredibly inexpensive, are essentially a way to give yourself permission to disengage for a few hours and slip into the serene world of escapism. 

Some of the best kinds of self care are abstract. They revolve around remembering to include yourself in the list of people in your life to keep happy. Maybe it's un-following a difficult person on social media, giving yourself permission to take a break from the news, or simply accepting it's okay to say "No." Other gifts you give yourself can be more concrete, small things to lift your mood. Whether it's a long nap, a long walk, or a special treat (takeout, new clothes, a hot bath), there's nothing wrong with a little indulgence if you're in need of a pick-me-up.  

It's easy to feel like it's selfish to keep the nice gifts for yourself coming, but nothing could be further from the truth. Smart self care is going to leave you feeling happier, more rested, and make you vastly more pleasant company for the other people in your life. If you want to take care of others, you need to remember to care for yourself as well. 

The next time life starts to feel like a little too much, kick off your shoes, get comfortable, and let the good self care tips roll. Vote up the best gifts to give yourself below and add anything you feel is missing! 

list ordered by

1
349 65
A Night's Sleep With No Alarm

2
308 52
A Freakishly Soft Blanket

3
296 55
Permission To Say "No" When You Want To

4
283 54
A New Piece Of Clothing That Goes With Everything

5
279 61
A Shameless Cuddle Session With Your Dog or Cat

6
239 45
An Afternoon At the Beach/Lake/River

7
237 46
Permission To Make Mistakes

8
249 53
Disengaging From Family Drama

9
263 67
A Long Nap

10
232 54
A Long Walk In Your Favorite Outdoor Location

11
198 38
Making Yourself Your Favorite Dessert

12
200 43
Ordering Take Out

13
202 52
A Long, Hot Bath

14
165 49
Doing Something Nice For Someone Else

15
146 39
A New CD/Playlist With All Your Favorite Songs

16
141 37
A Day Trip To Your Favorite Nearby Town

17
172 56
An Vow To Do Absolutely Nothing For an Afternoon

18
148 42
Unfollowing Toxic People On Social Media

19
146 41
A Back Massager

20
149 55
Taking a Class On Something You've Always Be Curious About

21
120 39
A New Pair of Shoes

22
122 45
Essential Oil/Candles Featuring Your Favorite Scent

23
123 48
A Great New Decoration For Your Place

24
131 54
A New Book To Read Just For Fun

25
100 46
Rewatching Your Favorite Childhood Cartoon On Hulu

26
95 46
Turning Off The News For A Day

27
101 52
Bubble Bath Or Bath Salts

28
92 48
An At Home Facial Mask Or Other Spa Treatment

29
90 48
Ordering Something Special At Your Local Coffee Shop

30
84 52
Busting Out An Adult Coloring Book

31
78 59
A Set of Silk Sheets

32
74 62
Stress Relief Tea

33
70 63
A Gym Membership

34
71 73
A New Journal

35
53 65
Checking Out Groupon For Random Adventure Ideas

36
50 73
A Subscription To Your Favorite Magazine

37
47 77
Relaxing To a Guided Meditation On YouTube

38
42 78
Signing Yourself Up For Music Lessons

39
34 82
Chilling Out To An ASMR Video On YouTube