relationships 25 Signs The Person You Just Started Dating Is Dating Multiple Other People  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest tells that you aren't your boy/girlfriend's only special someone.

If you’re trying to date right now you know that it can be a living nightmare. Thanks to dating apps, the amount of romantic partners you can meet has increased exponentially, which might sound nice but it’s just a quicker route to getting your feelings hurt if you’re not careful. If you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship and you haven’t made things official yet, it’s likely that you’re asking yourself, “Is my boyfriend seeing other people?” If you’re looking for signs he's seeing someone else, you’ve come to the right place. Everything on this list is a definitive way to tell if your partner is cheating, even if s/he isn't quite your official partner yet.

If you do see multiple warning signs your partner is seeing someone else, do you break up with them, or do you try to win them over in a desperate attempt to prove that you’re their one true love? Is that something that you even want right now? Do you constantly bother your friends by asking, “Is my girlfriend seeing other people?” If so this is the perfect place to start breaking down their behavior into a yes/no list of whether or not they’re stepping out on you.

Is he seeing someone else? You know in your heart whether or not your new beau is meeting up with women (or men) behind your back, but it can’t hurt to take a look at these concrete signifiers of infidelity just to make sure. Vote on the biggest tells that you aren’t your boyfriend or girlfriend’s only “special friend.” 

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203 83
They're Slowly Decreasing Their Contact With You

181 79
You've Never Met Any Of Their Friends

158 64
You've Never Been Introduced As Their Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

199 101
They Don't Let You Touch Their Phone

188 98
They Go Days Without Talking To You

143 70
It's Rare That They Invite You Out

148 92
It's Impossible To Get Them To Commit To A Plan

150 94
You See Your Significant Other On A Dating Site

117 74
They Have Nameless, Pronounless, "Friends"

108 84
They Make Sure You Don't Leave Anything When You Stay Over

115 92
Their Phone Is Constantly Blowing Up And They Never Check It

99 77
They're Not Keen On Sharing Their Feelings

122 99
They've Never Added You On Facebook

89 72
Their Stories Feel Extremely Rehearsed

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89 74
It Feels Like They're Rushing Through Your Time Together

105 98
You Fight More Than You Used To

97 94
Whenever You Give Them A Call Their Phone Goes Straight To Voicemail

88 91
You've Stopped Having Sex

83 88
They're Not Touchy Feely In Public

73 82
Your Friends Are Skeptical Of His Or Her Existence

74 84
You've Never Been On A Real Date

71 81
You're Constantly Being Called At The Last Minute To Do Things

71 81
You're Never Invited To Stay Over

73 85
They Just Want To Hang Out At Your Place

51 98
When You Go Out You Always Go Dutch