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25 Signs The Person You Just Started Dating Is Dating Multiple Other People  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest tells that you aren't your boy/girlfriend's only special someone.

If you’re trying to date right now you know that it can be a living nightmare. Thanks to dating apps, the amount of romantic partners you can meet has increased exponentially, which might sound nice but it’s just a quicker route to getting your feelings hurt if you’re not careful. If you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship and you haven’t made things official yet, it’s likely that you’re asking yourself, “Is my boyfriend seeing other people?” If you’re looking for signs he's seeing someone else, you’ve come to the right place. Everything on this list is a definitive way to tell if your partner is cheating, even if s/he isn't quite your official partner yet.

If you do see multiple warning signs your partner is seeing someone else, do you break up with them, or do you try to win them over in a desperate attempt to prove that you’re their one true love? Is that something that you even want right now? Do you constantly bother your friends by asking, “Is my girlfriend seeing other people?” If so this is the perfect place to start breaking down their behavior into a yes/no list of whether or not they’re stepping out on you.

Is he seeing someone else? You know in your heart whether or not your new beau is meeting up with women (or men) behind your back, but it can’t hurt to take a look at these concrete signifiers of infidelity just to make sure. Vote on the biggest tells that you aren’t your boyfriend or girlfriend’s only “special friend.” 

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1
You've Never Been Introduced As Their Boyfriend Or Girlfriend
2
They're Slowly Decreasing Their Contact With You
3
They Don't Let You Touch Their Phone
4
It's Rare That They Invite You Out
5
You've Never Met Any Of Their Friends
6
They Go Days Without Talking To You
7
It's Impossible To Get Them To Commit To A Plan
8
Their Phone Is Constantly Blowing Up And They Never Check It
9
Their Stories Feel Extremely Rehearsed
10
You See Your Significant Other On A Dating Site
11
They Have Nameless, Pronounless, "Friends"
12
They're Not Keen On Sharing Their Feelings
13
It Feels Like They're Rushing Through Your Time Together
14
You've Stopped Having Sex
15
You Fight More Than You Used To
16
They're Not Touchy Feely In Public
17
They've Never Added You On Facebook
18
You're Never Invited To Stay Over
19
You've Never Been On A Real Date
20
They Make Sure You Don't Leave Anything When You Stay Over
21
Your Friends Are Skeptical Of His Or Her Existence
22
Whenever You Give Them A Call Their Phone Goes Straight To Voicemail
23
You're Constantly Being Called At The Last Minute To Do Things
24
They Just Want To Hang Out At Your Place
25
When You Go Out You Always Go Dutch