Relationships 25 Signs The Person You Just Started Dating Is Dating Multiple Other People  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest tells that you aren't your boy/girlfriend's only special someone.

If you’re trying to date right now you know that it can be a living nightmare. Thanks to dating apps, the amount of romantic partners you can meet has increased exponentially, which might sound nice but it’s just a quicker route to getting your feelings hurt if you’re not careful. If you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship and you haven’t made things official yet, it’s likely that you’re asking yourself, “Is my boyfriend seeing other people?” If you’re looking for signs he's seeing someone else, you’ve come to the right place. Everything on this list is a definitive way to tell if your partner is cheating, even if s/he isn't quite your official partner yet.

If you do see multiple warning signs your partner is seeing someone else, do you break up with them, or do you try to win them over in a desperate attempt to prove that you’re their one true love? Is that something that you even want right now? Do you constantly bother your friends by asking, “Is my girlfriend seeing other people?” If so this is the perfect place to start breaking down their behavior into a yes/no list of whether or not they’re stepping out on you.

Is he seeing someone else? You know in your heart whether or not your new beau is meeting up with women (or men) behind your back, but it can’t hurt to take a look at these concrete signifiers of infidelity just to make sure. Vote on the biggest tells that you aren’t your boyfriend or girlfriend’s only “special friend.” 

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1,566 948
You've Never Been Introduced As Their Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

1,322 793
They Don't Let You Touch Their Phone

1,257 784
They're Slowly Decreasing Their Contact With You

1,119 720
It's Rare That They Invite You Out

1,096 786
You've Never Met Any Of Their Friends

966 749
It's Impossible To Get Them To Commit To A Plan

1,050 820
They Go Days Without Talking To You

917 737
Their Phone Is Constantly Blowing Up And They Never Check It

750 642
Their Stories Feel Extremely Rehearsed

749 660
You've Stopped Having Sex

791 703
They Have Nameless, Pronounless, "Friends"

753 672
They're Not Keen On Sharing Their Feelings

708 651
You Fight More Than You Used To

653 607
It Feels Like They're Rushing Through Your Time Together

674 635
They're Not Touchy Feely In Public

770 741
You See Your Significant Other On A Dating Site

650 732
They've Never Added You On Facebook

564 646
You're Never Invited To Stay Over

582 674
They Make Sure You Don't Leave Anything When You Stay Over

543 649
You've Never Been On A Real Date

505 639
Your Friends Are Skeptical Of His Or Her Existence

461 714
Whenever You Give Them A Call Their Phone Goes Straight To Voicemail

429 692
They Just Want To Hang Out At Your Place

423 687
You're Constantly Being Called At The Last Minute To Do Things

282 809
When You Go Out You Always Go Dutch