Living 25 Signs The Person You Just Started Dating Is Dating Multiple Other People  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest tells that you aren't your boy/girlfriend's only special someone.

If you’re trying to date right now you know that it can be a living nightmare. Thanks to dating apps, the amount of romantic partners you can meet has increased exponentially, which might sound nice but it’s just a quicker route to getting your feelings hurt if you’re not careful. If you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship and you haven’t made things official yet, it’s likely that you’re asking yourself, “Is my boyfriend seeing other people?” If you’re looking for signs he's seeing someone else, you’ve come to the right place. Everything on this list is a definitive way to tell if your partner is cheating, even if s/he isn't quite your official partner yet.

If you do see multiple warning signs your partner is seeing someone else, do you break up with them, or do you try to win them over in a desperate attempt to prove that you’re their one true love? Is that something that you even want right now? Do you constantly bother your friends by asking, “Is my girlfriend seeing other people?” If so this is the perfect place to start breaking down their behavior into a yes/no list of whether or not they’re stepping out on you.

Is he seeing someone else? You know in your heart whether or not your new beau is meeting up with women (or men) behind your back, but it can’t hurt to take a look at these concrete signifiers of infidelity just to make sure. Vote on the biggest tells that you aren’t your boyfriend or girlfriend’s only “special friend.” 

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1
1,718 1,012
You've Never Been Introduced As Their Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

2
1,443 863
They Don't Let You Touch Their Phone

3
1,388 833
They're Slowly Decreasing Their Contact With You

4
1,227 781
It's Rare That They Invite You Out

5
1,208 849
You've Never Met Any Of Their Friends

6
1,162 878
They Go Days Without Talking To You

7
1,048 816
It's Impossible To Get Them To Commit To A Plan

8
998 805
Their Phone Is Constantly Blowing Up And They Never Check It

9
823 703
Their Stories Feel Extremely Rehearsed

10
869 759
They Have Nameless, Pronounless, "Friends"

11
831 727
They're Not Keen On Sharing Their Feelings

12
808 733
You've Stopped Having Sex

13
847 787
You See Your Significant Other On A Dating Site

14
710 655
It Feels Like They're Rushing Through Your Time Together

15
733 688
They're Not Touchy Feely In Public

16
747 713
You Fight More Than You Used To

17
726 776
They've Never Added You On Facebook

18
619 698
You're Never Invited To Stay Over

19
635 725
They Make Sure You Don't Leave Anything When You Stay Over

20
595 706
You've Never Been On A Real Date

21
542 693
Your Friends Are Skeptical Of His Or Her Existence

22
498 772
Whenever You Give Them A Call Their Phone Goes Straight To Voicemail

23
465 737
You're Constantly Being Called At The Last Minute To Do Things

24
470 746
They Just Want To Hang Out At Your Place

25
300 873
When You Go Out You Always Go Dutch