25 Signs The Person You Just Started Dating Is Dating Multiple Other People

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Vote up the biggest tells that you aren't your boy/girlfriend's only special someone.

If you’re trying to date right now you know that it can be a living nightmare. Thanks to dating apps, the amount of romantic partners you can meet has increased exponentially, which might sound nice but it’s just a quicker route to getting your feelings hurt if you’re not careful. If you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship and you haven’t made things official yet, it’s likely that you’re asking yourself, “Is my boyfriend seeing other people?” If you’re looking for signs he's seeing someone else, you’ve come to the right place. Everything on this list is a definitive way to tell if your partner is cheating, even if s/he isn't quite your official partner yet.

If you do see multiple warning signs your partner is seeing someone else, do you break up with them, or do you try to win them over in a desperate attempt to prove that you’re their one true love? Is that something that you even want right now? Do you constantly bother your friends by asking, “Is my girlfriend seeing other people?” If so this is the perfect place to start breaking down their behavior into a yes/no list of whether or not they’re stepping out on you.

Is he seeing someone else? You know in your heart whether or not your new beau is meeting up with women (or men) behind your back, but it can’t hurt to take a look at these concrete signifiers of infidelity just to make sure. Vote on the biggest tells that you aren’t your boyfriend or girlfriend’s only “special friend.” 

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  • 1
    2,100 votes

    They're Slowly Decreasing Their Contact With You

  • 2
    2,512 votes

    You've Never Been Introduced As Their Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

  • 3
    1,891 votes

    It's Rare That They Invite You Out

  • 4
    2,131 votes

    They Don't Let You Touch Their Phone

  • 5
    1,924 votes

    You've Never Met Any Of Their Friends

  • 6
    1,928 votes

    They Go Days Without Talking To You