Relationships 25 Signs The Person You Just Started Dating Is Dating Multiple Other People  

Jacob Shelton
39.9k votes 3.6k voters 147.4k views 25 items

List Rules Vote up the biggest tells that you aren't your boy/girlfriend's only special someone.

If you’re trying to date right now you know that it can be a living nightmare. Thanks to dating apps, the amount of romantic partners you can meet has increased exponentially, which might sound nice but it’s just a quicker route to getting your feelings hurt if you’re not careful. If you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship and you haven’t made things official yet, it’s likely that you’re asking yourself, “Is my boyfriend seeing other people?” If you’re looking for signs he's seeing someone else, you’ve come to the right place. Everything on this list is a definitive way to tell if your partner is cheating, even if s/he isn't quite your official partner yet.

If you do see multiple warning signs your partner is seeing someone else, do you break up with them, or do you try to win them over in a desperate attempt to prove that you’re their one true love? Is that something that you even want right now? Do you constantly bother your friends by asking, “Is my girlfriend seeing other people?” If so this is the perfect place to start breaking down their behavior into a yes/no list of whether or not they’re stepping out on you.

Is he seeing someone else? You know in your heart whether or not your new beau is meeting up with women (or men) behind your back, but it can’t hurt to take a look at these concrete signifiers of infidelity just to make sure. Vote on the biggest tells that you aren’t your boyfriend or girlfriend’s only “special friend.” 

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1,692 997
You've Never Been Introduced As Their Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

1,421 847
They Don't Let You Touch Their Phone

1,365 817
They're Slowly Decreasing Their Contact With You

1,209 761
It's Rare That They Invite You Out

1,193 827
You've Never Met Any Of Their Friends

1,141 862
They Go Days Without Talking To You

1,030 800
It's Impossible To Get Them To Commit To A Plan

980 790
Their Phone Is Constantly Blowing Up And They Never Check It

809 686
Their Stories Feel Extremely Rehearsed

856 742
They Have Nameless, Pronounless, "Friends"

815 712
They're Not Keen On Sharing Their Feelings

802 711
You've Stopped Having Sex

836 773
You See Your Significant Other On A Dating Site

697 641
It Feels Like They're Rushing Through Your Time Together

721 672
They're Not Touchy Feely In Public

737 697
You Fight More Than You Used To

713 763
They've Never Added You On Facebook

629 706
They Make Sure You Don't Leave Anything When You Stay Over

609 683
You're Never Invited To Stay Over

584 691
You've Never Been On A Real Date

536 677
Your Friends Are Skeptical Of His Or Her Existence

494 753
Whenever You Give Them A Call Their Phone Goes Straight To Voicemail

462 729
They Just Want To Hang Out At Your Place

454 723
You're Constantly Being Called At The Last Minute To Do Things

297 854
When You Go Out You Always Go Dutch