Culture Signs Your Spouse Is Way More Self-Centered Than They Seem  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself.

If you’re in a relationship with someone and you’re beginning to feel like your significant other might be more in love with themselves than they are with you, then you might be stuck in a one-way marriage with a selfish partner. If this is the case then you either need to figure out how to appropriately confront your self-centered spouse or (if you have the ability) cut and run while you still can. If your boyfriend is selfish then it’s hard to get anything for yourself taken care of. This can mean anything as simple as going out for a haircut to planning your big day. Keep reading to get some ideas for how to figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is selfish.

If you’re dealing with a selfish spouse then the signs on this list will be way too familiar: from their distinct lack of empathy, to the amount of time they spend talking about themselves. After a certain age it’s pretty much impossible to break someone out of their narcissistic tendencies, so hopefully you love your partner and their nightmare of a personality. But if you constantly think to yourself, “my partner is selfish,” then you may need to start looking for a way to get out of your relationship pronto.

Vote on the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself. 

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2,854 304
When You Have A Serious Argument They're Incredibly Defensive

2
2,499 512
They Rarely Seem Like They're Listening To You

3
2,439 566
They're Never At Fault - Ever

4
2,300 604
They Don't Understand What Anyone Else Is Feeling

5
2,255 624
They Pretend Like They Do More Work Than They Actually Do

6
1,890 846
Your Significant Other Expects Everyone To Care About Them

7
1,906 916
They're Very Insecure

8
1,838 932
They Have No Remorse For Any Of The Terrible Stuff They Do

9
1,680 1,026
They Act Like They're Superior To Everyone Around Them

10
1,606 995
It Feels Like They Don't Live In The Real World

11
1,454 1,188
They Keep Everyone Waiting

12
1,360 1,222
Your Significant Other Acts Like A Jerk In Traffic

13
1,200 1,212
Over Time It's Become Obvious That They're Untethered To Reality

14
1,230 1,317
They Don't Actually Have Any Friends

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1,099 1,389
They Control Everything You Do

16
949 1,521
Lies Are Their First Language

17
858 1,552
They've Never Shown Concern For A Sick Relative

18
757 1,639
Whenever They Get A Chance They Take Advantage Of Someone

19
691 1,682
They Take Things That Aren't Theirs

20
547 1,757
The Word "Monster" Comes To Mind When You Think Of Them

21
511 1,844
Your Significant Other Is Rude To Restaurant Workers

22
373 1,905
You've Caught Them Staring At Themselves In The Back Of A Spoon

23
357 1,887
They're Constantly Killing Plants On Accident

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313 1,824
You've Described Them As A Character From Girls