dating Signs Your Spouse Is Way More Self-Centered Than They Seem  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself.

If you’re in a relationship with someone and you’re beginning to feel like your significant other might be more in love with themselves than they are with you, then you might be stuck in a one-way marriage with a selfish partner. If this is the case then you either need to figure out how to appropriately confront your self-centered spouse or (if you have the ability) cut and run while you still can. If your boyfriend is selfish then it’s hard to get anything for yourself taken care of. This can mean anything as simple as going out for a haircut to planning your big day. Keep reading to get some ideas for how to figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is selfish.

If you’re dealing with a selfish spouse then the signs on this list will be way too familiar: from their distinct lack of empathy, to the amount of time they spend talking about themselves. After a certain age it’s pretty much impossible to break someone out of their narcissistic tendencies, so hopefully you love your partner and their nightmare of a personality. But if you constantly think to yourself, “my partner is selfish,” then you may need to start looking for a way to get out of your relationship pronto.

Vote on the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself. 

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When You Have A Serious Argument They're Incredibly Defensive

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537 140
They Rarely Seem Like They're Listening To You

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481 158
They're Never At Fault - Ever

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484 162
They Don't Understand What Anyone Else Is Feeling

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462 167
They Pretend Like They Do More Work Than They Actually Do

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408 213
They're Very Insecure

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378 221
Your Significant Other Expects Everyone To Care About Them

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373 231
They Have No Remorse For Any Of The Terrible Stuff They Do

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376 260
They Act Like They're Superior To Everyone Around Them

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311 257
It Feels Like They Don't Live In The Real World

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326 281
They Keep Everyone Waiting

12
310 264
Your Significant Other Acts Like A Jerk In Traffic

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268 293
They Don't Actually Have Any Friends

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237 297
Over Time It's Become Obvious That They're Untethered To Reality

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232 313
They Control Everything You Do

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223 319
Lies Are Their First Language

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196 349
Whenever They Get A Chance They Take Advantage Of Someone

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179 342
They've Never Shown Concern For A Sick Relative

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178 371
They Take Things That Aren't Theirs

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148 417
Your Significant Other Is Rude To Restaurant Workers

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119 390
The Word "Monster" Comes To Mind When You Think Of Them

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108 417
You've Caught Them Staring At Themselves In The Back Of A Spoon

23
78 432
They're Constantly Killing Plants On Accident

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64 420
You've Described Them As A Character From Girls