Culture Signs Your Spouse Is Way More Self-Centered Than They Seem  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself.

If you’re in a relationship with someone and you’re beginning to feel like your significant other might be more in love with themselves than they are with you, then you might be stuck in a one-way marriage with a selfish partner. If this is the case then you either need to figure out how to appropriately confront your self-centered spouse or (if you have the ability) cut and run while you still can. If your boyfriend is selfish then it’s hard to get anything for yourself taken care of. This can mean anything as simple as going out for a haircut to planning your big day. Keep reading to get some ideas for how to figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is selfish.

If you’re dealing with a selfish spouse then the signs on this list will be way too familiar: from their distinct lack of empathy, to the amount of time they spend talking about themselves. After a certain age it’s pretty much impossible to break someone out of their narcissistic tendencies, so hopefully you love your partner and their nightmare of a personality. But if you constantly think to yourself, “my partner is selfish,” then you may need to start looking for a way to get out of your relationship pronto.

Vote on the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself. 

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3,149 326
When You Have A Serious Argument They're Incredibly Defensive

2
2,749 563
They Rarely Seem Like They're Listening To You

3
2,681 610
They're Never At Fault - Ever

4
2,533 650
They Don't Understand What Anyone Else Is Feeling

5
2,477 680
They Pretend Like They Do More Work Than They Actually Do

6
2,070 926
Your Significant Other Expects Everyone To Care About Them

7
2,099 992
They're Very Insecure

8
2,017 1,018
They Have No Remorse For Any Of The Terrible Stuff They Do

9
1,854 1,108
They Act Like They're Superior To Everyone Around Them

10
1,759 1,084
It Feels Like They Don't Live In The Real World

11
1,612 1,278
They Keep Everyone Waiting

12
1,489 1,328
Your Significant Other Acts Like A Jerk In Traffic

13
1,293 1,335
Over Time It's Become Obvious That They're Untethered To Reality

14
1,332 1,439
They Don't Actually Have Any Friends

15
1,189 1,517
They Control Everything You Do

16
1,021 1,669
Lies Are Their First Language

17
934 1,695
They've Never Shown Concern For A Sick Relative

18
806 1,802
Whenever They Get A Chance They Take Advantage Of Someone

19
749 1,833
They Take Things That Aren't Theirs

20
587 1,920
The Word "Monster" Comes To Mind When You Think Of Them

21
548 2,011
Your Significant Other Is Rude To Restaurant Workers

22
400 2,077
You've Caught Them Staring At Themselves In The Back Of A Spoon

23
391 2,054
They're Constantly Killing Plants On Accident

24
336 1,989
You've Described Them As A Character From Girls