culture Signs Your Spouse Is Way More Self-Centered Than They Seem  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself.

If you’re in a relationship with someone and you’re beginning to feel like your significant other might be more in love with themselves than they are with you, then you might be stuck in a one-way marriage with a selfish partner. If this is the case then you either need to figure out how to appropriately confront your self-centered spouse or (if you have the ability) cut and run while you still can. If your boyfriend is selfish then it’s hard to get anything for yourself taken care of. This can mean anything as simple as going out for a haircut to planning your big day. Keep reading to get some ideas for how to figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is selfish.

If you’re dealing with a selfish spouse then the signs on this list will be way too familiar: from their distinct lack of empathy, to the amount of time they spend talking about themselves. After a certain age it’s pretty much impossible to break someone out of their narcissistic tendencies, so hopefully you love your partner and their nightmare of a personality. But if you constantly think to yourself, “my partner is selfish,” then you may need to start looking for a way to get out of your relationship pronto.

Vote on the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself. 

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2,345 263
When You Have A Serious Argument They're Incredibly Defensive

2,050 438
They Rarely Seem Like They're Listening To You

1,991 480
They're Never At Fault - Ever

1,896 510
They Don't Understand What Anyone Else Is Feeling

1,847 524
They Pretend Like They Do More Work Than They Actually Do

1,541 719
Your Significant Other Expects Everyone To Care About Them

1,581 755
They're Very Insecure

1,508 776
They Have No Remorse For Any Of The Terrible Stuff They Do

1,388 861
They Act Like They're Superior To Everyone Around Them

1,324 832
It Feels Like They Don't Live In The Real World

1,197 998
They Keep Everyone Waiting

1,122 1,021
Your Significant Other Acts Like A Jerk In Traffic

1,006 1,014
Over Time It's Become Obvious That They're Untethered To Reality

1,024 1,104
They Don't Actually Have Any Friends

The Funniest Pick-Up Lines

916 1,160
They Control Everything You Do

799 1,258
Lies Are Their First Language

718 1,298
They've Never Shown Concern For A Sick Relative

642 1,370
Whenever They Get A Chance They Take Advantage Of Someone

580 1,415
They Take Things That Aren't Theirs

453 1,480
The Word "Monster" Comes To Mind When You Think Of Them

424 1,562
Your Significant Other Is Rude To Restaurant Workers

328 1,586
You've Caught Them Staring At Themselves In The Back Of A Spoon

289 1,591
They're Constantly Killing Plants On Accident

258 1,542
You've Described Them As A Character From Girls