relationships Signs Your Spouse Is Way More Self-Centered Than They Seem  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself.

If you’re in a relationship with someone and you’re beginning to feel like your significant other might be more in love with themselves than they are with you, then you might be stuck in a one-way marriage with a selfish partner. If this is the case then you either need to figure out how to appropriately confront your self-centered spouse or (if you have the ability) cut and run while you still can. If your boyfriend is selfish then it’s hard to get anything for yourself taken care of. This can mean anything as simple as going out for a haircut to planning your big day. Keep reading to get some ideas for how to figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is selfish.

If you’re dealing with a selfish spouse then the signs on this list will be way too familiar: from their distinct lack of empathy, to the amount of time they spend talking about themselves. After a certain age it’s pretty much impossible to break someone out of their narcissistic tendencies, so hopefully you love your partner and their nightmare of a personality. But if you constantly think to yourself, “my partner is selfish,” then you may need to start looking for a way to get out of your relationship pronto.

Vote on the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself. 

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1,397 169
When You Have A Serious Argument They're Incredibly Defensive

1,234 268
They Rarely Seem Like They're Listening To You

1,177 298
They're Never At Fault - Ever

1,135 315
They Don't Understand What Anyone Else Is Feeling

1,095 338
They Pretend Like They Do More Work Than They Actually Do

925 450
Your Significant Other Expects Everyone To Care About Them

956 470
They're Very Insecure

887 494
They Have No Remorse For Any Of The Terrible Stuff They Do

841 546
They Act Like They're Superior To Everyone Around Them

782 534
It Feels Like They Don't Live In The Real World

731 622
They Keep Everyone Waiting

693 623
Your Significant Other Acts Like A Jerk In Traffic

630 673
They Don't Actually Have Any Friends

598 646
Over Time It's Become Obvious That They're Untethered To Reality

The Best Qualities in a Man

546 726
They Control Everything You Do

499 769
Lies Are Their First Language

445 796
They've Never Shown Concern For A Sick Relative

419 834
Whenever They Get A Chance They Take Advantage Of Someone

374 864
They Take Things That Aren't Theirs

276 913
The Word "Monster" Comes To Mind When You Think Of Them

276 973
Your Significant Other Is Rude To Restaurant Workers

209 975
You've Caught Them Staring At Themselves In The Back Of A Spoon

182 986
They're Constantly Killing Plants On Accident

158 966
You've Described Them As A Character From Girls