Culture Signs Your Spouse Is Way More Self-Centered Than They Seem  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself.

If you’re in a relationship with someone and you’re beginning to feel like your significant other might be more in love with themselves than they are with you, then you might be stuck in a one-way marriage with a selfish partner. If this is the case then you either need to figure out how to appropriately confront your self-centered spouse or (if you have the ability) cut and run while you still can. If your boyfriend is selfish then it’s hard to get anything for yourself taken care of. This can mean anything as simple as going out for a haircut to planning your big day. Keep reading to get some ideas for how to figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is selfish.

If you’re dealing with a selfish spouse then the signs on this list will be way too familiar: from their distinct lack of empathy, to the amount of time they spend talking about themselves. After a certain age it’s pretty much impossible to break someone out of their narcissistic tendencies, so hopefully you love your partner and their nightmare of a personality. But if you constantly think to yourself, “my partner is selfish,” then you may need to start looking for a way to get out of your relationship pronto.

Vote on the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself. 

3,142 326
When You Have A Serious Argument They're Incredibly Defensive

2,743 562
They Rarely Seem Like They're Listening To You

2,677 607
They're Never At Fault - Ever

2,528 648
They Don't Understand What Anyone Else Is Feeling

2,475 675
They Pretend Like They Do More Work Than They Actually Do

2,065 924
Your Significant Other Expects Everyone To Care About Them

2,094 990
They're Very Insecure

2,013 1,015
They Have No Remorse For Any Of The Terrible Stuff They Do

1,850 1,105
They Act Like They're Superior To Everyone Around Them

1,755 1,081
It Feels Like They Don't Live In The Real World

1,607 1,276
They Keep Everyone Waiting

1,483 1,327
Your Significant Other Acts Like A Jerk In Traffic

1,291 1,330
Over Time It's Become Obvious That They're Untethered To Reality

1,331 1,433
They Don't Actually Have Any Friends

1,187 1,512
They Control Everything You Do

1,019 1,664
Lies Are Their First Language

932 1,690
They've Never Shown Concern For A Sick Relative

803 1,799
Whenever They Get A Chance They Take Advantage Of Someone

748 1,828
They Take Things That Aren't Theirs

587 1,914
The Word "Monster" Comes To Mind When You Think Of Them

546 2,007
Your Significant Other Is Rude To Restaurant Workers

400 2,071
You've Caught Them Staring At Themselves In The Back Of A Spoon

391 2,048
They're Constantly Killing Plants On Accident

336 1,983
You've Described Them As A Character From Girls