relationships Signs Your Spouse Is Way More Self-Centered Than They Seem  

Jacob Shelton
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List Rules Vote up the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself.

If you’re in a relationship with someone and you’re beginning to feel like your significant other might be more in love with themselves than they are with you, then you might be stuck in a one-way marriage with a selfish partner. If this is the case then you either need to figure out how to appropriately confront your self-centered spouse or (if you have the ability) cut and run while you still can. If your boyfriend is selfish then it’s hard to get anything for yourself taken care of. This can mean anything as simple as going out for a haircut to planning your big day. Keep reading to get some ideas for how to figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend is selfish.

If you’re dealing with a selfish spouse then the signs on this list will be way too familiar: from their distinct lack of empathy, to the amount of time they spend talking about themselves. After a certain age it’s pretty much impossible to break someone out of their narcissistic tendencies, so hopefully you love your partner and their nightmare of a personality. But if you constantly think to yourself, “my partner is selfish,” then you may need to start looking for a way to get out of your relationship pronto.

Vote on the biggest indicators that prove your spouse mostly cares about him or herself. 

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1,387 169
When You Have A Serious Argument They're Incredibly Defensive

1,225 267
They Rarely Seem Like They're Listening To You

1,169 296
They're Never At Fault - Ever

1,127 314
They Don't Understand What Anyone Else Is Feeling

1,088 336
They Pretend Like They Do More Work Than They Actually Do

918 448
Your Significant Other Expects Everyone To Care About Them

948 468
They're Very Insecure

882 491
They Have No Remorse For Any Of The Terrible Stuff They Do

837 542
They Act Like They're Superior To Everyone Around Them

777 530
It Feels Like They Don't Live In The Real World

727 616
They Keep Everyone Waiting

688 620
Your Significant Other Acts Like A Jerk In Traffic

625 670
They Don't Actually Have Any Friends

593 643
Over Time It's Become Obvious That They're Untethered To Reality

The Best Qualities in a Man

543 721
They Control Everything You Do

497 763
Lies Are Their First Language

441 791
They've Never Shown Concern For A Sick Relative

416 829
Whenever They Get A Chance They Take Advantage Of Someone

371 859
They Take Things That Aren't Theirs

274 907
The Word "Monster" Comes To Mind When You Think Of Them

273 968
Your Significant Other Is Rude To Restaurant Workers

208 969
You've Caught Them Staring At Themselves In The Back Of A Spoon

182 978
They're Constantly Killing Plants On Accident

158 958
You've Described Them As A Character From Girls