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Teachers Describe Their Worst Encounters With Nightmare Parents

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When teachers vent about parents, you usually hear of pretty shocking stories of terrible people. You can get the normal annoying parents who come in and hover around their children or ask a lot of questions. But the actual worst parents are a totally different beast. Because teachers really see the worst of people. They see the negligent parents, the helicopter parents, and even parents capable of horrible abuse. 

Going far beyond just teacher pet peeves, the more annoying parents can make it straight up impossible for educators to do their jobs. From parents who think children potty train themselves (or that teachers should) to parents who actually threaten teachers for just doing their job, it'll relieve you to know your dad simply asked some embarrassing questions at parent-teacher night. When you see what these teachers of Reddit have to say, there's one thing you'll realize for sure—teachers just don't get paid enough.

  • 1
    2396 VOTES

    Serious Abuse

    From Dont_Gild_Me:

    "A couple of years back, there was a student who often wrote letters to her teachers thanking them for teaching her. The thing is, she always called them Mom/Dad, and always started the letters with 'Dear mother/father.'

    At that time my teacher thought it was just the student joking around, until one day they found out that she had cut herself badly during school in her cubicle. From what she described, it wasn't just scratches, but deep cuts all over her arms and legs, and she was literally overflowing with blood. 

    The teacher immediately called the ambulance and her parents, telling them to visit their daughter and help her. However, what the mother told her still disgusts her till this day.

    She told the teacher to let her child die, and the earlier the better.

    Sadly, she never really told us why and didn't know what happened to her after graduation as she didn't come back to visit the school. Now, she uses this story to teach us how lucky we are to have loving parents."

    Is this the worst?
  • 2
    1411 VOTES

    A Carnival Of Fun

    From alwayslurkeduntilnow:

    "I've got loads of stories... 

    "1. 4 pm, during parents' evening, a mum got so drunk she could barely walk, leaving her poor daughter distraught with shame.

    2. A dad attacks head teacher for putting a student on home-schooling for a week. The student had shot dead another student in his bedroom the previous week in 'an accident'.

    3. Normal student with an awful mother. The mum thinks her child is stupid, naughty and basically horrible. She spends all parents' evening telling teachers how terrible her 12-year-old is."

    Is this the worst?
  • 3
    1564 VOTES

    All The Extremes

    From sciencenerd86:

    "I have stories from both ends of the spectrum. When I taught second grade I had a parent leave alone her eight-year-old (my student), her four-year-old and an infant for several days when she went on a trip about four hours away. No adults staying, checking in, etc. She told him not to leave the house when she left on Friday, so it wasn't until Monday when we called and no one answered (not unusual) or Tuesday's welfare check that anyone realized the situation. It was terrifying to think of what could have happened. Injuries, fire, what these poor children ate (especially the baby who probably wasn't on solids yet) just to name a few.

    The other is a more regular occurrence. I now teach middle school to the most helicoptered children. I have students whose parents check our online grade book and daily webpages eight-to-10 times daily and email their student's teachers nearly daily to check up. These children are 13-years-old and aren't allowed to make any kind of mistake or learn from having any responsibility or self-advocacy skills. It's terrible to think what a disservice this will be as their children are forced into the 'real world' without their moms there to solve their problems."

    Is this the worst?
  • 4
    1096 VOTES

    Professor Youtube

    From a deleted user:

    "I had a kid repeatedly refuse to do his work and he kept trying to pull up YouTube instead of completing his assignment. He turned in a completely blank assignment so I gave him a zero. His mom called me and told me he thought he didn't have to do it and that I was bullying her son. Psycho."

    Is this the worst?