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The Best Places to Meet Women 

Mark Holmes
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Updated December 19, 2019 31.6k votes 3.1k voters 222.6k views 39 items

List Rules Vote up the places & ways you can meet and flirt with girls you don't already know

Here it is: the definitive list of the best places to meet women, ranked by ladies and dudes alike. Where do you go to meet women and girls that you would want to date? Single life is tough. If you're flying solo, you have probably already tried to go to the typical spots where you can meet girls: bars and clubs. Though it's possible to meet women in these places, it's kind of a crapshoot, no? And you never really want to say you met your girlfriend at a bar. It comes off as sleazy, desperate, even creepy... So what are the best places to meet women you don't already know?

The best way to meet a girl is through activities, doing what you are interested in, and through mutual friends. Putting yourself in a situation where you are doing activities with groups allows you to establish common ground with women and get to know them over a period of time, rather than trying to best them with your one-liners. Tips on how to meet women: try to get out as much as possible, stay active and get your single friends together for group activities. Vote on this list of ideas for how to meet a girlfriend and add any places that have worked for you. 

For more dating tips see: How To Get a Girl to Like You and 31 Ways to Repel a Potential Girlfriend

  
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A Friend of a Friend is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Athanasios added A Friend of a Friend
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An Organized Group Activ... is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
An Organized Group Activity
Camping, rafting, fishing... Have your friends bring THEIR friends.
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College is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
RichardPrice added College
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A Volunteer Group is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
A Volunteer Group
Build shared experiences... and women think altruism is sexy. 
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Dog Parks is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Dog Parks
Women may find your dog much more approachable than you are. 
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Your Friend's Wedding is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Your Friend's Wedding
Love is in the air. 
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A Book Store is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
A Book Store
Talk to a woman who is browsing in your favorite sections.
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Music Festivals is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Music Festivals
People have their guard down, are more likely to talk with strangers... and be drunk.
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Work is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Work
You already know a lot about each other and have some common ground. 
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In Your Apartment Buildi... is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
In Your Apartment Building
Especially common areas like the laundry room.
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Party is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
slaft added
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The Farmers' Market is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
The Farmers' Market
The mix of sunshine and free fruit samples tends to make people chatty. 
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Beach or a Pool is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
tacticalbacon added Beach or a Pool
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Grocery Store is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
bryansboxx2 added Grocery Store
Especially the bigger ones!
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Church is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Church
If you are a Church-goer, this is a relaxing, low-pressure place to talk to women. 
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School is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
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Online Dating is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Online Dating
Tinder, OKCupid, Match.com, eHarmony... it's worked for many, and could work for you. 
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Your Local Artwalk is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Your Local Artwalk
Neighborhood cultural events are a great place to connect with new people. 
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Dance Class is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Dance Class
You'll probably be one of the only straight men there and the teacher will pair you up.
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Fitness Class is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Fitness Class
Make small talk between squats and lunges. 
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The Bar is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
The Bar
Bars are a great place to meet women while they are relaxed and out socializing. 
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Social Dance is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
hcorkmeyer added Social Dance
Learn how to dance, guys, I'm tellin' ya
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Wine Tasting Event is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Wine Tasting Event
A booze-fest disguised as a classy event. 
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Cooking Classes is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Francois X Crescentino added Cooking Classes
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Watching Your Favorite T... is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Best Places to Meet Women
Watching Your Favorite Team Play
Find a partner who shares your passion for both football and beer.