Relationships The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person  

Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
15,231 1,588
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
13,618 1,124
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,857 1,661
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
12,278 1,670
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

5
10,912 1,146
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
10,960 1,654
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
10,024 1,104
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
9,272 1,718
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
9,985 843
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added

10
9,477 1,352
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,701 1,037
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,944 1,759
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,906 2,441
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
8,330 1,198
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

15
7,521 1,972
Lips is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

16
9,492 3,221
Butt is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

17
6,731 265
Personality is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

18
6,343 348
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

19
8,092 1,144
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

20
7,178 661
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

21
7,692 1,137
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

22
7,376 1,148
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

23
8,008 1,394
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,397 360
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,615 3,067
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,340 1,162
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

27
7,115 3,187
Chest is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

28
4,633 194
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added

29
5,930 896
Patience is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

30
5,595 1,177
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

31
5,709 870
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
4,628 989
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

33
3,986 559
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

34
5,200 1,424
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

35
3,253 325
Values is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added

36
4,844 1,460
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

37
3,556 2,264
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

38
4,438 1,347
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

39
4,368 824
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

40
3,752 642
Courage is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

41
3,974 1,384
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,690 2,160
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

43
3,422 1,312
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
2,529 2,122
Accent is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

45
3,118 1,310
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

46
3,075 2,185
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,527 1,051
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,472 1,600
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,427 130
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
3,049 843
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children