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The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

Updated July 15, 2020 446.6k votes 30.8k voters 939.8k views79 items

List RulesVote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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  • 26
    6,648
    1,195

    Skill in Bed

  • 27
    5,835
    1,404

    Generosity

  • 28
    1,663
    158

    Sticks Up for You

  • 29
    9,544
    1,744

    Sensual

  • 30
    6,250
    1,597

    Lips

  • 31
    3,340
    545

    Courage

  • 32
    2,448
    281

    Understanding

  • 33
    8,403
    1,811

    Tolerance

  • 34
    3,904
    795

    Awareness of Their True Self

  • 35
    3,617
    648

    Ablity to Trust the Right People

  • 36
    7,492
    2,670

    Butt

  • 37
    3,909
    1,102

    Problem Solving

  • 38
    3,672
    1,083

    Creativity

  • 39
    4,189
    1,107

    Good Taste

  • 40
    5,152
    2,488

    Legs

  • 41
    1,449
    216

    Attentive to Me/ Not Distracted

  • 42
    5,462
    2,533

    Chest

  • 43
    2,716
    1,107

    Great Taste in Music

  • 44
    2,707
    767

    Skill with Children

  • 45
    2,846
    1,268

    Posture

  • 46
    2,942
    1,067

    Animal Empathy

  • 47
    677
    104

    Gentleness

  • 48
    2,305
    967

    Cooking Skills

  • 49
    2,002
    690

    Resilience

  • 50
    2,947
    1,655

    Style / Fashion Sense

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