Relationships The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person  

Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
15,239 1,588
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
13,625 1,126
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,865 1,662
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
12,286 1,671
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

5
10,920 1,147
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
10,968 1,654
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
10,032 1,105
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
9,279 1,719
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
9,994 843
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added

10
9,485 1,353
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,710 1,037
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,952 1,760
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,912 2,441
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
8,336 1,198
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

15
7,525 1,973
Lips is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

16
9,496 3,224
Butt is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

17
6,740 265
Personality is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

18
6,351 348
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

19
8,098 1,144
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

20
7,185 661
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

21
7,699 1,138
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

22
7,383 1,148
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

23
8,013 1,395
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,403 360
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,618 3,070
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,343 1,164
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

27
7,118 3,189
Chest is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

28
4,639 194
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added

29
5,935 896
Patience is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

30
5,599 1,177
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

31
5,712 871
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
4,632 990
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

33
3,988 560
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

34
5,203 1,424
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

35
3,257 325
Values is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added

36
4,848 1,460
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

37
3,557 2,266
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

38
4,441 1,347
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

39
4,370 824
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

40
3,754 642
Courage is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

41
3,976 1,384
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,692 2,160
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

43
3,425 1,312
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
2,531 2,123
Accent is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

45
3,120 1,311
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

46
3,078 2,185
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,528 1,053
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,475 1,600
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,430 130
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
3,052 843
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children