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The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

Updated July 15, 2020 355.8k votes 31.1k voters 945.5k views79 items

List RulesVote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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  • 1
    5,720
    213

    Personality

    How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.
  • 2
    5,309
    323

    Humor

  • 3
    5,268
    279

    Honesty


  • 4
    10,135
    849

    Smile

  • 5
    3,978
    171

    Loyalty

  • 6
    8,200
    843

    Kind Heartedness

  • 7
    7,509
    607
  • 8
    10,950
    1,223

    Eyes

  • 9
    9,495
    1,263

    Intelligence

  • 10
    6,508
    739

    Politeness / Good Manners

  • 11
    7,459
    862

    Loving Nature

  • 12
    5,478
    485

    Reliability

  • 13
    9,042
    1,243

    Physical Attractiveness

  • 14
    7,000
    912

    Thoughtfulness

  • 15
    8,089
    1,206

    Scent

  • 16
    2,259
    125

    Sense of Humour

  • 17
    6,160
    881

    Confidence

  • 18
    5,949
    823

    Good Grooming Habits

  • 19
    2,739
    288

    Values

  • 20
    5,769
    865

    Kissing Skills

  • 21
    5,443
    779

    Listening Skills

  • 22
    4,288
    642

    Laugh

  • 23
    6,977
    1,268

    Pleasant Voice

  • 24
    4,368
    668

    Patience

  • 25
    5,903
    1,067

    Skill in Bed