thought provoking The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person  

Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
14,702 1,516
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
13,104 1,080
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,331 1,595
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
11,791 1,597
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Physical Attractiveness

5
10,450 1,108
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
10,519 1,586
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
9,628 1,036
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
8,843 1,654
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
9,579 816
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Respectfulness

10
9,114 1,315
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,332 1,009
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,634 1,696
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,624 2,343
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
8,020 1,136
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

20 Celebrities Who Were Homecoming Queen

15
9,196 3,074
Butt is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

16
7,225 1,895
Lips is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

17
7,777 1,112
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

18
7,083 1,120
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

19
7,397 1,074
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

20
6,872 641
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

21
5,996 338
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

The Worst Foods to Eat on a Date

22
6,397 248
Personality is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

23
7,736 1,323
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,084 341
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,436 2,946
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,143 1,091
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Sensuousness

27
6,926 3,067
Chest is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

28
5,722 861
Patience is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Patience

Bucket List for Couples

29
4,363 183
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added Loyalty

30
5,394 1,143
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Tolerance

31
5,487 841
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
3,767 527
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

33
4,427 954
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

34
5,007 1,379
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

35
4,273 1,294
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

The Best Things Banned in the Bible

36
3,429 2,192
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

37
4,677 1,425
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

38
3,063 311
Values is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added Values

39
4,203 804
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

40
3,591 616
Courage is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

41
3,823 1,333
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,565 2,104
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

Things You Miss Most About College

43
3,281 1,266
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
2,974 1,261
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

45
2,434 2,038
Accent is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

46
2,972 2,112
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,394 1,004
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,360 1,545
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,242 118
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
2,917 802
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children