thought provoking The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person  

Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
14,581 1,487
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
12,985 1,063
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,217 1,570
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
11,687 1,569
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Physical Attractiveness

5
10,332 1,093
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
10,413 1,564
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
9,532 1,015
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
8,747 1,633
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
9,486 807
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Respectfulness

10
9,026 1,303
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,246 997
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,562 1,683
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,555 2,317
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
7,943 1,112
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

The Best Qualities in a Woman

15
9,134 3,030
Butt is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

16
7,153 1,878
Lips is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

17
7,698 1,099
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

18
7,005 1,113
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

19
7,324 1,054
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

20
6,795 634
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

21
5,909 333
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

15 Reasons Why You Are the Most Annoying Person on Facebook

22
6,320 245
Personality is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

23
7,683 1,303
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,011 330
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,399 2,914
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,096 1,074
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Sensuousness

27
6,877 3,036
Chest is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

28
5,661 854
Patience is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Patience

How to Get a Girl to Like You

29
4,295 179
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added Loyalty

30
5,335 1,136
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added Tolerance

31
5,428 831
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
3,699 524
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

33
4,375 940
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

34
4,952 1,369
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

35
4,233 1,279
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

Famous People You Didn't Know Were Married to Each Other

36
3,398 2,173
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

37
4,635 1,412
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

38
3,013 305
Values is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added Values

39
3,549 608
Courage is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

40
4,163 798
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

41
3,788 1,320
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,529 2,089
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

17 Signs You Are Being Cheated On

43
3,241 1,254
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
2,941 1,247
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

45
2,415 2,015
Accent is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

46
2,942 2,094
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,363 988
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,327 1,528
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,197 111
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
2,889 785
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children