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Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
15,300 1,594
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
13,678 1,132
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,911 1,674
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
12,346 1,678
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

5
10,970 1,150
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
11,010 1,663
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
10,074 1,111
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
9,321 1,726
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
10,034 845
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added

10
9,526 1,356
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,745 1,042
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,991 1,764
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,945 2,448
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
8,372 1,201
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

15
7,558 1,981
Lips is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

16
9,529 3,239
Butt is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

17
6,780 267
Personality is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

18
6,388 351
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

19
8,128 1,149
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

20
7,215 663
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

21
7,729 1,143
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

22
7,408 1,154
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

23
8,041 1,399
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,430 362
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,640 3,077
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,359 1,167
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

27
7,140 3,198
Chest is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

28
4,664 194
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added

29
5,951 899
Patience is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

30
5,612 1,182
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

31
5,729 872
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
4,643 995
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

33
4,003 563
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

34
5,215 1,427
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

35
3,272 326
Values is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added

36
4,861 1,462
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

37
3,565 2,270
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

38
4,450 1,349
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

39
4,378 825
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

40
3,765 642
Courage is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

41
3,980 1,389
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,700 2,160
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

43
3,431 1,315
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
2,536 2,127
Accent is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

45
3,129 1,312
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

46
3,085 2,188
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,535 1,055
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,484 1,602
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,441 130
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
3,059 844
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children