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Samantha Dillinger
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List Rules Vote on the characteristics that most turn you on to potential partners.

What do you love about your guy or gal? Their hair? Their smile? Their honesty? This is a list of the biggest turn ons for women and men, meaning what men want in a woman and what women want in a man. Wondering how to be charming and attractive to the opposite sex? This crowdsourced list contains the best qualities that a person can have, as agreed upon by the Ranker community. These traits are what women really want and what men like. The secret to making yourself attractive to a potential mate can be found on this list!

The best qualities in a person will vary, but there's no denying there are well-liked qualities that are common across the board. Most people would agree that the biggest turn ons in a person include intelligence, humor, and a hot body, but that's not all!

What are the biggest turn ons for men and women? What are the best personality traits? This is a great place to see what things other people value, whether you're trying to determine the best qualities in another person or trying to answer the question "what qualities should I have?"
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1
15,124 1,574
Eyes is listed (or ranked) 1 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eyes

2
13,511 1,114
Smile is listed (or ranked) 2 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Smile

3
12,744 1,647
Intelligence is listed (or ranked) 3 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Intelligence

4
12,181 1,657
Attractive is listed (or ranked) 4 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

5
10,821 1,133
Kind Heartedness is listed (or ranked) 5 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Kind Heartedness

6
10,870 1,641
Scent is listed (or ranked) 6 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Aya1 added Scent

7
9,948 1,087
Loving Nature is listed (or ranked) 7 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Loving Nature

8
9,185 1,703
Pleasant Voice is listed (or ranked) 8 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
mkhrrs89 added Pleasant Voice

9
9,899 831
Respectful is listed (or ranked) 9 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added

10
9,392 1,340
Thoughtfulness is listed (or ranked) 10 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Thoughtfulness

11
8,615 1,027
Politeness / Good Manners is listed (or ranked) 11 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Politeness / Good Manners

12
6,877 1,738
Generosity is listed (or ranked) 12 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Generosity

13
7,847 2,414
Hair is listed (or ranked) 13 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Hair

14
8,259 1,176
Confidence is listed (or ranked) 14 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
analise.dubner added Confidence

15
7,445 1,959
Lips is listed (or ranked) 15 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lips

16
9,419 3,194
Butt is listed (or ranked) 16 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Butt

17
8,019 1,137
Good Grooming Habits is listed (or ranked) 17 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Grooming Habits

18
6,642 259
Personality is listed (or ranked) 18 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
bryansboxx2 added Personality How a person acts and the way they conduct their self.

19
7,111 655
Reliability is listed (or ranked) 19 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Coolza added Reliability

20
6,261 345
Honesty is listed (or ranked) 20 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
GokuKurosaki added Honesty

21
7,630 1,119
Kissing Skills is listed (or ranked) 21 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnemarieCruellaBarnes added Kissing Skills

22
7,311 1,140
Listening Skills is listed (or ranked) 22 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
AnnyMouso added Listening Skills

23
7,934 1,381
Skill in Bed is listed (or ranked) 23 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Lasbas added Skill in Bed

24
6,327 355
Humour is listed (or ranked) 24 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person

25
6,572 3,042
Legs is listed (or ranked) 25 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Legs

26
6,297 1,150
Sensual is listed (or ranked) 26 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

27
7,067 3,167
Chest is listed (or ranked) 27 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Chest

28
4,580 189
Loyalty is listed (or ranked) 28 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
syed-taha-wajahat added

29
5,884 891
Patience is listed (or ranked) 29 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

30
5,553 1,168
Tolerance is listed (or ranked) 30 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
truthissomewhereoutthere added

31
5,662 864
Laugh is listed (or ranked) 31 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
jojoh0 added Laugh

32
3,939 552
Fresh Breath is listed (or ranked) 32 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
domuchpolevaulting added Fresh Breath

33
5,152 1,418
Good Taste is listed (or ranked) 33 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Good Taste

34
4,587 981
Awareness of Their True Self is listed (or ranked) 34 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
fukUits33Dgrees added Awareness of Their True Self

35
4,806 1,453
Problem Solving is listed (or ranked) 35 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Problem Solving

36
3,529 2,247
Eloquence is listed (or ranked) 36 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Eloquence

37
4,395 1,339
Creativity is listed (or ranked) 37 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
kaylive added Creativity

38
3,210 321
Values is listed (or ranked) 38 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
RobLein added

39
4,329 818
Ablity to Trust the Right Peop... is listed (or ranked) 39 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Ablity to Trust the Right People

40
3,715 633
Courage is listed (or ranked) 40 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
cedarhawk7 added Courage

41
3,944 1,372
Libido is listed (or ranked) 41 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Wprett added Libido

42
3,657 2,148
Style / Fashion Sense is listed (or ranked) 42 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Style / Fashion Sense

43
3,390 1,300
Animal Empathy is listed (or ranked) 43 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Animal Empathy

44
2,507 2,102
Accent is listed (or ranked) 44 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Accent

45
3,088 1,298
Great Taste in Music is listed (or ranked) 45 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Trioxin245 added Great Taste in Music

46
3,055 2,168
Talent is listed (or ranked) 46 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
PaulJ.Hernandez added Talent

47
2,499 1,037
Cooking Skills is listed (or ranked) 47 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Sausage added Cooking Skills

48
3,447 1,585
Posture is listed (or ranked) 48 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
ZarekKniffen added Posture

49
2,388 126
Sense of Humour is listed (or ranked) 49 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
Tigereyesxx added Sense of Humour

50
3,021 833
Skill with Children is listed (or ranked) 50 on the list The Biggest Turn Ons in a Person
NavidHaider added Skill with Children